Enjoying a good attitude is catchy and who doesn’t like being around positive people? Spread fabulous feelings and Flirting with style. Everyone can do it. We just need to pick up the secrets. The up side? Being able to be flirtatious is innate; it’s about being self assured and being able to sexily be in your body. The other trick is being able to grasp body language. We women may be concerned about what we say but the truth is it's our bodies that do most of the communicating. Communication is 60 per cent non-verbal. So look out for what your body is saying. Scientists say you can heighten your powers of attraction by approximately 70 per cent if you can improve your body talk.
7) Show People Your Sexy Aura
If you’re talking with a guy you are interested in then reflect his body communications and manner of behaviour and they will feel you have something in common with them. Stand up straight and lean slightly forward, turning your body towards him more directly, and keep physical obstacles out of the way; be sure not to cross your arms like a citadel.
Most importantly, ooze a look of healthy vigour. Appear vital, luminous even. Picture youself having just had an amazing romp and have an awesome glow around you.
8) Be Like Madonna
Confidence is without doubt the most appealing of all characteristics. have a quick chat with yourself before you head out and remind yourself you’re fabulous!.
If you need a little assistance in the self assurance stakes, pretend until you get there for real. Find a role model you can emulate, think Madonna or Marylin Monroe. Just think how that person would act, feel and walk. Think of what characteristics make her sexy and how she expresses these physically.
9) Listen Up Ladies
Probably the most important flirting skill is just listening. Guys love discussing themselves. They like being the centre of attention. Ask open-ended questions - or, questions that require an involved answer. Tilt your face, look him in the eyes and nod as he chats - make him feel like the most fascinating and amusing man in teh world.
10) Read His Cues
So…think you’ve found your match? Pondering whether the stud you’ve been keen on all evening is also interested in you? It’s time to read the signs…
Think he’s keen? See a few of these signs and you’re probably right:
•Glances at you
•Moves his torso to face you
•Adjusts his tie
•Small movement of the pelvis backward
•Moves towards you
•Smiles when he catches your eye
•Adopts a friendly body stance
Ladies, get on with it and put your newfound flirting and dating confidence to the test!
