When February comes around the merchants stock shelves with all things in the shape of a hearts, speckled with red and pink colors. Dozens of red roses line all the flower shops. All adorned with ferns, babys breath and arrangements to catch the eye. So men, dont get confused. Just take a little time and you will find the most original gift to get for the special woman in your life.

Favorite staples for this most important holiday are always chocolate in heart like containers and long stem roses. Its what we call a safe bet. Unfortunately, if you go with roses and chocolate you will not get any extra points for originality.

Want to make an impression? Ask yourself, what doe she like? Write these things down in a secret journal, note pad or PDA. All women appreciate the little things. But who can remember this stuff? So be sure to pay attention when she drops those little nuggets and write it down in your secret black book. This information is better than gold.

What to look for you ask? Here are a few suggestions. Whats her favorite meal and dont forget the dessert. What is her favorite flower? Don't think that a dozen of roses will cover it. Does she love carnations? Maybe you can add yellow carnations to the usual pink and red for Valentines Day. Use the little details to make a special Valentines Day that she will remember.

Another proven gift is dinner out. Is the favorite restaurant thing been over done? Are you good in the kitchen? Cook her favorite entre. If your cooking isn't an option then here is an incredible idea. Have a chef to come to your home. He will prepare the meal in your and he serves it to the two of you over candle light. Every city has a culinary school and these chefs work inexpensively. Dont forget the champagne and chocolate covered strawberries for dessert. Fellas, after the chef leaves your night is just beginning.

Not that you will need it, and for some extra points play her favorite romantic music in the background. This will fix the mood. Will she be impressed? There is no doubt. You just went above and beyond. Its not just the usual chocolates and roses this year.

You dont have to spend like a king to making your Valentines Day original. Just take the usual and tweak a little. As Valentines Day draws closer she will tell you things that she likes. Dont act like your noticing. Good hearted deception is always fun. Make the arrangements in secrets and the element of surprise will be in your favor.

Are you going to fall into the trap and not plan for the day? Other guys mistakenly use the same old routines. Dont be one of those guys. Cheap leftovers are not fun and she will not feel appreciated. And boys its all about the feelings. A little effort means a happy woman and a happy woman means your life get so much easier.