Winning back the love and trust of your ex may seem like an uphill battle. Most of the time it is. But that does not mean that you cannot win then back. Not only is it possible but you can do it easier than you ever thought possible. This article will show three of the most effective strategies of making up quickly.

The first strategy is to withdraw. Don't make yourself as available as you have been. Take some much needed time for yourself and start a new hobby or class. You need to move forward with life. When your ex see that you are doing something productive with yourself, that little gesture will cause him to wake up and start taking notice of you again.

The second strategy is to buy your ex a gift. As you are going on with your life it's alright to send a gift to let your ex know you were thinking of them. As you are on the internet, visit Amazon.com and buy something simple. When I say simple, I mean a CD, DVD or coffee cup. Even if you haven't spoken with your ex since the breakup, this kind gesture will in most cases, cause your ex to call you.

The final strategy is to call your ex to ask a question they would know. While on the phone, chit chat and be friendly. When you get the answer you asked for, promptly make up a reason to get off the phone. More than likely, your ex will ask you if you have time soon to meet up for lunch, coffee, or the movie they want to see is coming out this weekend, or something. Use this as an opportunity to get your ex back.

Each one of these strategies have been proven to work and they can work for you.