Your first decision needs to be if you really want your lover back. You should think about the relationship, how it was, how it is, and what will change to make it what you want it to be.

If you decide that you want to win back a lover, then you need to start making a plan. You may think your situation is impossible and you just can't come up with a plan that would work,

If that is the case, then I will tell you about a proven plan that will work like magic to win lover back. It is called "The Magic Love Recipe". I will discuss this plan later.

First, I want to give you three tips that will help you win your lover back.

1. Attitude is Everything.

Yes, you need to keep a positive attitude. I know you are not in the "rah rah" mood now. In fact, you probably feel like every day for the rest of your like is going to be grey and cloudy.

But getting and keeping a positive attitude is one of the most important steps in re-igniting the flames of passion you had in the beginning of your relationship.

You need to make a conscious decision to actually win back lover, instead of merely hoping that it will happen. Daydreaming about being with your lover again is not going to get the job done. You need to decide that it is going to happen, it will happen and you are going to make it happen. You need a real "I can do it" attitude.

A positive "you" will make it easier for you to win back your lover.

2. Take Action-Make The Effort.

Your lover is not coming back just because you want them to. You need to make the effort and take action. I know that sounds completely obvious, but it's also the one thing that is hard to do and people just don't do.

They sit around worrying about their lover and whether they will return. They will complain about how hard they are having it, they complain about life.

They hope and they pray. But this does not give them real results, it will waste their time. If you want to know how to win back a lover, you must understand that it starts with action.

3. Taking The Wrong Advice.

Everyone has an opinion on how to win your lover back. But just because they have an opinion does not make it the right one. Most of the advice you will get from your friends and family is dead wrong.

They do not have the experience, knowledge or expertise to hand out advice that really works. Starting ignoring bad advice, it will not help you to win back your lover.

This brings me to the proven plan that I mentioned early, "The Magic Love Recipe". It is part of the unconventional strategies found in the excellent e-book "The Magic of Making Up".

"The Magic of Making Up" strategies have helped more than 6,000 people in 52 countries. People like you who thought that their broken relationship was beyond repair.

Now is the time to have the right "I can do it" attitude, take action and make the effort, and take the right advice to win lover back like magic!