If you're concerned that she's doing something like talking to other men or discussing personal things about your relationship, maybe you want to find out the truth once and for all.

First of all, women are different from men in that they tell very personal details about relationships to their sisters, their mothers and their girlfriends. Most men keep these details private. Women are different. Before you decide to explore your wife's conversations, be aware that you may not like what you find. You may find negative comments about yourself. Women often vent about their husbands, about their husband's bad habits, lack of domestic help or tell details of their sex lives. Many men find this behavior shocking, as they would never reveal such personal details to other men. Before you become upset about what you are about to find out about what your wife says, be aware that this may not definitively mean that there's a flaw in your marriage or that your relationship is in trouble. You may simply find out what your wife does is vent her frustrations about you. This can help her get 'over' an argument. Venting to other women about men is what girls do.

If you are sure that you want to know what she talks about, you can find out quite easily. You can install a software package that monitors her every keystroke and screen view if that's what you wish to find out. You can determine who she's talking to and what they say to her as well as what she tells them. Software packages can do this very easily for you. It's free to try and can e-mail you a detailed report without her knowledge. It will tell you everything you need to know. What you decide to do with that information is up to you. You may chose to stop looking and realize that she's doing nothing to hurt your relationship and not talking to other men. She may in fact not be discussing you at all. The computer chat phenomenon is exciting and addictive to many people who find it harmless fun to talk to other individuals.

In any case, if you feel it's important that you find out whom she might be chatting with and exactly what's being said, it can be very easy for you to find out this information.