The first secret is that we stopped doing our normal activities. Whatever you do, do not stop working out, going to church, doing your errands, hanging out with your girlfriends, just because he calls and wants to see you tonight. A man does not want you to stop being who you are. You should not give up your life, keep a day planner of activities, and do not cancel your plans, you can let him know what time is good for you once you have finished what you have to do.

Another reason a man leaves a woman is because she does not accept him for who he is, and is always trying to change him. Everyone has their own faults; you have to decide whether or not those faults are deal-breakers. It is ok to let him know how you feel, but otherwise, you will have to give him space to be himself.

Lack of appreciation is another common reason why men leave women. I think we have all been guilty of this at some time. We tend to get comfortable in the relationship and simply we do not think it is as important as it was in the beginning. Make sure and tell him thank you when he takes you out to dinner, tell him it is good to hear from him when he calls. Tell him looks nice. If he fixes something for you, make sure and compliment him. Everyone wants to be appreciated.

Another popular reason why a man leaves a woman is because she is overbearing. A woman who demands all of his attention, and keeps in sight at all times. This makes a man feel smothered, and he just wants to do what he wants to do without her interference. Maybe she is always telling him what to do, what to wear, always giving unsolicited advice. He could interpret that as she is trying to run his life.

Being over possessive and not giving them space and freedom is another common reason why men dump women. Nagging falls into this category as well. Nagging and complaining will make the man fell like they want to escape.

If your man has or is falling away from you, you can get him back. You must discover the secret ingredient a man requires in a serious relationship and if you give it to him, he will never leave. It's never too late to get him back, no matter what mistakes you have made.