There are some things in life you just don’t forget. I can remember when I was a little boy growing up and my mom and dad had their family rules and traditions. As I reminiscence on yesterday and consider the morals that was set for me when I growing up I can’t but thank both my parents for having family values that has lasted a lifetime. I often find myself raising my daughter with the same family values I grew up with. Having respect for your elders and respecting those in authority positions. Showing respect to others regardless of how you treated and learning to be trustworthy and honest in relationships.

I often find myself using the same methods but with a different twist to keep everything up-to-date with her generation. However, I do not compromise with the disciplines that work most effectively. Good ole fashion but whipping is still one of the best methods of discipline today. I’m still here after forty plus years of living; and I did not die when either one of my parents put a belt on my butt.

Today’s children attempt to threaten their parents by telling them they’re call the police or some social service program if you use a belt to whip their behind. A good psychological way of nipping this in the bud; is simply giving your child the phone number of the agency or police department and tell them to give them a call. As a parent the best way to discipline your children is to do it with a calm spirit; which can be hard to do at times. Never discipline your child when you are angry. This is where abuse can come into effect, and you could get yourself in trouble with corporal punishment if you find yourself breaking your child’s skin or leaving bruise marks while discipling your children.

Always think before you act and consider other methods of punishment before you automatically jump to corporal punishment. Sometimes corporal punishment doesn’t always work. Even though I believe and know it’s still effective today. You will guarantee yourself and your children and their children good family values if you start early in their lives with whatever method of discipline you choose for your family. Every family is different; every child is different, so pay close attention to which works best for you and your family. I’m certain if you look back over your life I’m sure there was someone who showed you they cared. Whether it was your father, step-father or natural parent, legal guardian, foster-parent, older sibling; somewhere along the way there were some kind of strong family value that shaped the way you are today.

Your child or children are an asset to you and not a liability. Look, Children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of your womb is a reward. Psalm 127:3. If you are struggling with your parental rights and responsibilities sign-up to receive tips on life in general and I can help you with your parenting concerns.

Copyright © 2007 Clark A. Thomas