Oh to define a woman and decide that she is what you want. Women posses a very strong ability to change their own definition, which makes it rough on guys with specific preferences. Obviously, if you want to find a woman with the "image" you are looking for, then you have to frequent the right type of places that attract those type of women.

However, with a woman, you really are never quite sure that the package is going to match the insides. Changing drastically for a woman is only going to satisfy needs that do last beyond sunrise. Trying to be someone you're not in order to attract a "type" of woman might not be as simplistic as we would like to think. Just because she looks hot, kinky, and even a little dirty when you meet her doesn't mean she doesn't have a business suit to slip into the next day.

If you want to fulfill needs on a larger scale, you're going to have to get rid of the judgments you lay down on the packaging. Once you move beyond one night stands, the packaging may or may not represent an accurate picture. In so many cases, the woman you really want is the one that can fit into multiple images, and still look good wandering around your place in pajama pants and your old tee shirt.

Undefining the definable is a fun way to go on your own little private adventure with a woman that maintains the potential to knock your socks off.

Women who are willing to experiment with themselves and their outer packaging are also more willing to experiment in the bedroom, are more free spirited, and are generally more outgoing than women who are set in their own firm idea of how things (including their hair) should be. Change is a sign of growth and freedom. If you find a woman with the freedom to grow, you could be in for a seriously wild ride. It's not a age limiting condition, either.

If you find a free spirited woman who wants to find adventure and change her hats in her twenties, chances are she will still be changing her hats and finding adventure in her fifties. Women who have that luxurious freedom don't usually give it up too quickly, no matter what comes along and no matter who demands they live out their lives in the same persona.

Fun is the name of the game with a great number of women, and thus the woman you meet is probably just one of the fun loving sides of her that you get to see up close and personal. Don't be afraid of the woman who knows who she is and likes to change it up regularly. The direct benefit for your life is bound to a very positive experience.