For centuries pearls have been synonymous with purity, sophistication and romance. There is nothing more classic than a Bride in a white flowing gown, her neck draped with dazzling ivory pearls.

Because pearls come in a variety of shapes, colors and overtones they are very versatile; allowing them to be a perfect choice to support most any wedding theme.

Matching the Wedding Theme

One should consider the overall theme of the wedding before deciding on which pearls to buy.

- Traditional

Pure white or cream Akoya, Hanadama, South Sea and Freshwater pearl sets are the classic choice for a traditional wedding. Larger sizes, starting in the 7-8mm range are customary.

- Modern / Contemporary

Akoyas with rose overtones or White South Sea pearl sets are excellent choices for a modern wedding.

- Tropical

Black Tahitian or Golden South Sea pearl sets are ideal choices for an exotic wedding.

Choosing Jewelry for the Wedding Party

The Bride

As she is the star of the ceremony, the Bride should wear the largest and prettiest pearls. Her pearls should reflect her individuality and personality as well as the wedding theme. This means that she should be free to choose the pearls that appeal to her most in color, overtone and size.

The length of a pearl necklace will be determined by the neckline of the dress she has chosen to wear. If her dress has a high neckline above the collarbones, a 16 inch choker necklace is most appropriate. If the dress has a moderate neckline slightly below the collarbones, a 17-18 inch necklace is the best choice. If she is wearing a dress with a low neckline, the 18-22 inch range is recommended.

A 32 inch single strand necklace is also a good idea due to its adaptivity. For example, during the ceremony the Bride can double up the length, turning the necklace into a double strand. After the wedding, she can wear the necklace at its full length to create a fashionable effect.

For a modern, contemporary look, choose a White South Sea Pearl Pendant and Earring set.

The Bride's pearl jewelry should also be complimentary and relative to her frame and figure. If she is a petite woman, a small necklace and earring set in the 6.5-7.5mm range is appropriate. If she is of a moderate build, a necklace and earring set in the 7.5-8.5mm range is an excellent choice. Generally, 7-7.5mm is the most popular size, as it is neither too big nor too small in appearance.

Groom and Groomsmen

Although your Groom may be unaware, pearls are appropriate for men as well as women. A pair of small 5.5-6.5mm pearls can be set into matching cufflinks; perfectly complimenting the Groom's attire while adding an extra touch of class.

Bridesmaids

During the ceremony the Bridesmaids are living extensions of the Brides' own beauty; each one representing the love and friendship she carries with her throughout her life. It is important for their jewelry to reflect the Brides' while not overshadowing it. For this reason smaller sizes, shorter lengths or different quality pearls than that of the Brides' are very appropriate.

For example, if the Bride wears a 7-8mm Akoya pearl set, Bridesmaids should be outfitted with a 6-7mm Freshwater pearl set. If the Bride wears an 8-10mm Tahitian pearl set, the Bridesmaids should wear a 7-8mm Black Akoya pearl set.

To especially distinguish your maid of honor, bestow her with pearls that are slightly bigger, longer or of a different color than that of the other Bridesmaids. This will make her stand out and feel that she is extra special to you.

Flower Girls

As the Flower Girl(s) is usually quite young, it is customary that their jewelry be smaller than that of the Bridesmaids'. A very small pearl size, such as 6-6.5mm, is very appropriate. For necklace length, choose something in the 14-15 inch range.

Mothers and Grandmothers

As a woman matures and ages she is complemented best by larger pearls; something starting in the 7-8mm size range. Longer necklace lengths, such as 18-22 inches, are appropriate as well.

Overall

Ultimately, your wedding is a reflection of the commitment you and your partner have made to one another. Every aspect of the ceremony should represent this as much as possible. After all, this is supposed to be a celebration! Good luck!