Obviously, if you were to date a married woman, you already a third party to an existing relationship; while we are not in the position to dictate your life or judge whether whatever you are doing is right or wrong, one should really think twice or even thrice before deciding on dating a married woman. Moreover, dating married women can be a very emotionally and physically draining issue especially if it does not blossom properly.

Not too far in the past form now, married women mostly stay at home to tend to the affairs at home, but as women begin to want equality and freedom, we see more of them at work nowadays.

Together with this freedom, women are then more exposed to others out there in the world, and have the tendency to be tempted into extra-marital affairs just like working men. Especially in a sexually inactive relationship, women tend to look to other men to satisfy their sexual cravings and they will probably not stop at just one person.

While you may be going head over heels for this hot babe, she may actually have the opposite feelings for you! Have you ever thought, how faithful can a person who is already proven themselves to be unfaithful be? Most married women looking for outside flings are no interested in having another “serious” relationship outside. They just want to have someone to satisfy themselves that's all or they are just looking for care and love that they lack of in their lives.

The cold truth is that managing a relationship with a married woman can be very tough especially when you are constantly afraid of being found out as not many would probably be agreeing with your actions. Think about it, if you are ever found out by the husband, it not only ruins the reputation of you and your lover, it would also bring pain and sorrow to all three parties and there would be nothing good that would come out of this. Unless you are telling me, you do not really care about your lover, and then seriously, you are not ready to enter into a relationship as you have yet to learn how to care about your other half.

However, if you are truly madly with her and insist on carrying on the relationship as having an affair with her entices you greatly, then find ways to please her while the relationship lasts. This would include giving her the pleasure that she has been longing for and the attention she needs.

Some rules if you still insists on dating her:

1. Have good sex - A married woman starts an affair to have hot sex. Be good in bed and she will stay close to you. Make her feel pleasurable.

2. Keep mum about the affair - Don't start announcing it to your friends about the hot married woman you're seeing. Word spreads like wild fire and there can be no turning back then. Try to keep it low key. You would not want the husband come chasing after you, would you?

3. Keep your problems to yourself – The main reason why she is having an affair is because she has had enough of the lack of love and constant ranting from her husband. She has no need of a replica of a husband that she is already being unfaithful to. Most probably she will leave you for another man too.

If you still haven been woken from your senses, let me warn you again, having an affair with a married woman is tough and it is only going to get tougher and more complicated. So stop before it gets anymore worse than it already is.