Sometimes men get the wrong belief that they can have any girl fall in love with them simply by looking irresistible. Girls nowadays tend to fall in love for a deeper reason other than looks. Though it pays to look irresistible, this factor is not the only thing that will give you the advantage around the ladies.

Be yourself around her. Don't act like some perfect guy if you cannot play up to the part. Prove to her how lovable and sweet you can be. Although this might sound juvenile, it simply does the trick. Smile and show that you know how to show her a fun time. Girls love guys with a good humor. However, and this is important, don't make jokes at other peoples expense. This is a total turn-off for any girl.

Show her hints of your feelings towards her, but take care not to sound as if you are simply flirting with her. Know what she finds attractive in a guy or just know the stuff that she likes. You should be able to do this without following her.

Be genuine and open with your feelings. Give her gentle compliments every day, but do not make the comments seem like bad pick-up lines. Give her gifts, but make sure to find the right kind, to convey your feelings better. A red rose can signify passion while a sunflower can mean worship. Likewise, if you're giving her flowers, make sure that she's not allergic to that particular kind.

It also pays to give the girl space in order for her to sort out her feelings for you. Do not come up to her and say all the things that you did for her so that she would figure out that she cares for you. The more you push yourself onto her, the more pressured she will feel. And seldom is the right conclusion made under pressure. She may even decide to bail out even if your relationship has not even started. Let her develop her feelings for you on her own grounds.