I should interject right here that you will have to gain control over your emotions and thing clearly. If you try to repair a broken relationship while being in your current emotional state, you will only do a lot more damage with little chance to get your ex boyfriend back again.

Here's a bit of fantastic news you can do with right now. It's absolutely possible to get him back and holding you in mere days from now. I've been witness to this over and over again.

I'll be more than happy to take your hand on this one and show you exactly what to say and do, as long as you promise to keep a positive attitude and know that you can easily get him back again.

What follows are a few critical things to avoid like any man should avoid Paris Hilton. And that's a whole lot of avoiding. Try to dodge these relationship ruiners until we have formed a complete step-by-step strategy to get him back.

* Don't Drink And Dial. This is the one that causes by far the most problems and that's why it is number one. With drink and dial I'm not only referring to be drunk on cocktails, but also drunk on intense emotions of pain and rejection. Alcohol just adds to the already poor situation.

I'm just going to be completely straight with you, here's what you need to realize. You are very, very needy right now.

Neediness and clinginess is the number 1 attraction killer known to mankind. You will only drive your ex boyfriend further away, so don't have any contact right now.

* Put Down The Ice Cream. I know, how stereotypical of me. But it fits right in with your situation though. No man in his right mind is attracted to a woman sitting on a pile of dirt and weeping.

That's why you have to make sure that you look smokin' hot when he sees you again for the first time after the break up.

Fun Fact: Did you know that men have nervous circuitry running from their eyes directly into the part of their brain that is responsible for sexual arousal? That's why, before he can even think the thought "WOW she looks fine!" his body already started reacting towards it. Use this to your advantage!

* Feisty + Fighting = Failure. You might feel angry, hurt and betrayed right now. Sometimes you can't help yourself and just want to unleash all of your woman's fury on him. How could he do this to you?!

Don't. Let me repeat that, don't. Or wait, let me rather say don't if you want him back. If you want to be absolutely guaranteed of never seeing him again, keep fighting.

To not go down this sure road to ruin, I strongly urge you to follow rule #1. The no-contact rule is gold as it saves you from yourself until you are thinking clearly and are ready to rock his world again.