What gives? The issue is that many women just do not understand that there are some very basic things that turn a man on. In fact, these things are so basic that the man may not even realize that he is responding to these things, he'll just find you irresistible!
A man wants a woman who listens. This sounds really basic, and it is, but it is something that women overlook. Women like to talk. A lot. The result is that they don't usually let a man get a word in edge wise.
While many men are happy to let the woman do the majority of the talking, they do like a woman who is going to listen when he talks. Men don't like to be rejected and when a woman doesn't want to listen to him he feels as though he is being rejected, which is why a lot of men don't share much to begin with.
Men like a woman who smiles a lot. A woman who smiles is a woman who is confident and who is likely to want to have a lot of fun and who will be a lot of fun to be with. Many women forget that smiling really is attractive and not only that, it makes them more intriguing as well as more approachable for a man. You don't have to smile in a fake way, but be sure that you smile often and that you smile genuinely because then it reaches your eyes and a guy will respond in a positive manner!
A man likes a woman who dresses the part of a woman. Many women don't realize how visual men are, but they are very visual and you need to play on this. You can do this by dressing well and dressing in a feminine manner. Most men like a woman who dresses like a woman because it defines his role as a man. Be sure when you are attracted to a man that you dress well, but don't dress uncharacteristically for who you are.
When you put all of these things together you will find that men will respond to you in a favorable manner. No more guessing about what a man wants or doesn't want. Of course, just because you do all of these things does not mean that all men will want you, it just means that you will be making yourself as attractive as possible when the right man comes along! The mystery of men has been solved!
