1.Problems with a good player are almost always mental in nature. Thinking clearly really is the name of the game. And a clear head is impossible when fear reigns.

2.So if you change how you think, you change your game. Don't worry why the ball flew where it did. Just keep your mind focused on the next shot.

3.Psychologists tell us that we tend to become a composite of the five persons were around the most. Maybe you need to find some more relaxed folks to practice with if this is a continuing problem. If you're worried about what others think, chances are your game is really inconsistent. You're overly aggressive one second and overly conservative the next.

4.Playing with a perfectionist translates into ?no fun?. Why ruin the joy of the game for yourself? Find friends you can play the game with just for the pure enjoyment. Your game will likely improve as you're less tense and able to swing more freely. Top players refine their skills every year. They're always improving in little ways that add up. You're not always going to play your best game, and you'll never play a perfect one - no matter how skilled you are. Work to improve little faults and your game will gradually get better and better.

5. Don't dwell on mistakes. As Tiger Woods says, ? hit it and forget it.? You can't go back in time and replay a shot, so just forget about it and move on.

Obviously some of these thought are easier said than done. Make an effort to play your next game by think confidently and staying focused. Attitudes do make a difference.