Picking up women can be a very nerve wrecking situation. You might be dressed to impress and well groomed, but you still have the feeling that her looks pull in other men who you feel are much better looking than yourself. This mindset has been very popular for a long time. You must keep in mind any man on planet has a shot at engaging and picking up that same woman. Here are a few more ways to help you pick up beautiful women.

1) Examine the situation.

Many guys will make the utter mistake and forget this important step. If that particular woman is in a set or group of men and you are shy, this could really hurt you. Walk around a bit and approach women who are sitting either alone or with other women.

Keep in mind that this step depends on the type of person you are. If you are a man who is not so shy and very social, you may even be able to dominate that first scenario. Just remember that this is the first time you are meeting this beautiful woman. It does not matter what you have done in the past, this is a chance to restart.

2) Keep the conversation refreshing.

When you have finally worked up that courage and approach her, open up with an easy question. A few great examples include asking her for a woman's opinion, her facial expression telling you how she is feeling, or even a simple question dealing with what she is drinking. Once she opens up and answers, you must try to keep the conversation flowing naturally. Do not make her feel as though she is being interviewed for a job.

Come up with a few relevant random stories. This can be a bit difficult if you have nervous butterflies in your stomach. The one way to get rid of this is to be yourself and make her laugh. Not only will the nervous butterflies go away, but you will have successfully elevated her comfort level.

Another thing to remember is to keep cursing or any form of offensive language to a minimum. The beautiful woman has a choice to leave and talk to some other guy. If you are continuously using offensive language it will turn her off and make you look like an immature teenager. Women are often times looking for adults they can socialize with.

3) Ask her for her phone number.

If everything is going well you will want to be able to successfully close the conversation. One mistake many men often make is to directly ask for a phone number. Not only will this scare her off, but it will make her feel as though you are inexperienced.

The one successful way used in the dating world is to create a situation where she will end up willingly giving up her number. You say that you are going to a party on a different day and she should come. This will give her a choice and even if she says no, it will not really hurt you.

4) Things to avoid.

The worst thing to do is to stick around even when the conversation has died off. If you stick around way too long, you will automatically fall into the dreaded friend zone.

Another thing to avoid is staring at her body. By doing this you are slowly showing what you're true intentions are. Women know what your ultimate objective is. You do not need to further prove this point by staring.

Do not be disrespectful and rude. Remember that women want to socialize with mature adults like themselves.

After trying this technique many times, you should be able to get the hang of picking up women. Just as with anything else in life, it takes practice and patience. Try to keep in mind that it does not matter how you look. Just be yourself and entertain her.

Copyright 2007 Donald Mckenzie Jr