Put away the old frumpy frock and be prepared to embrace your beautiful curves, because you can look great in today's trendy fashions. But to do so, you've got to get to know your own shape. The right cut and style can take the attention away from the places you don't want it, create a diversion and draw the eyes right where you want them!

While you're shopping, remember just four magic words: minimize, lengthen, shape and contour. Check online catalogs for stores in your area that cater to plus sized fashion and style, not just larger sizes. Not all plus size stores are created equal, and if you're not careful and know what you're looking for - they might actually let you walk out with a Hawaiian muumuu! Get an idea of what you like to wear before you shop, check out the websites of your favorites local fashion stores, and head out to try on some new dresses!

A girl's best friend could be learning the skill of refocusing their attention from one part of their body to another. An hour-glass figure is given better definition through high waistlines, whereas straight-sided dress will add bulk to the mid-section. In addition, bunchy fabrics and thick pleats add bulk as well. Another item to avoid is large, all-over prints or oversized patterns. The focus naturally goes to the print rather than the flattering cut, which can impose a rather "rounded' look. The best advice is to choose flowing fabric that lays flat against your body. Any style that lengthens your torso will be your best bet.

When buying a dress, choose one that matches your body shape. Remember to try on the item, sizes can vary from designer to designer and shop to shop. Don't let vanity rule over reality, squeezing yourself into a smaller size can leave your sexy curves looking like way unsexy. This is as true for bras as it is for other items. An ill fitting bra can leave you sagging or spilling over. The right undergarments, chosen because they fit your body shape, can make you look slim and sexy. And a word to the wise, avoid tight form fitting fabrics or clothes that hug your body.

When you've found the dress of your dreams it's time to pick out the accessories to go with it. They will finish off your look and make your outfit even more stunning. Choose between the glamour of diamonds or something to add a little color to your outfit. The best accessory of all is glowing sun kissed skin. Use a little Bronzer or some sunless tanning to give your self confidence a healthy boost and show off your new outfit to it's best advantage.