Let's just face facts, sometimes men just don't get it. Women may be sending signals that either aren't picked up on or are just confusing. Most men wonder after a conversation with an attractive woman was she just being nice or flirting. With the mixed signals men receive and some men's inability to pick up on them it can be difficult to figure out just what is going on.

However there are a few basic signs of flirting that will definitely tell you she is interested. So look for these when you're talking to a woman.

She is checking you out – Girls do to you know. If you notice her first look at your face and her eyes drop there is no doubt that she is checking you out and wants to know more about you.

She looks right at you – prior to approaching a woman you may notice that she looks directly at you and maintains that prolonged eye contact. Who knows, she may even smile at you.

Her will have an open attitude with you – you will notice after you approach her and begin a conversation that opens up with you. You can notice this with her body language as her arms will be open and her wrists will be turned more open towards you.

She gives her best effort to look her best for you – When a woman notices your interest and has the same interest in return she will do her best to look great for you. She may check her hair or make up, possibly her clothes also. It is usually a subconscious check but it is a definite sign of she is flirting when she is making her best effort to look her best for you.

She will move in closer to you

A good sign she is flirting will be if she moves in closer to you during the conversation. She might even do something to make you get closer such as lower her voice as a way of creating a more intimate moment during the conversation.

She may stroke her hair

She may start stroking her hair or touch her neck while she is talking to you. It would be a subconscious sign that she is interested in you and way for her to flirt with you.

Her gaze will pass all around your face

One last signal of flirtation by her is that her gaze will wander back and forth between your mouth and eyes. It is a very strong and classic sign of flirting and which should not be ignored. When you notice that you will know that she is thinking about kissing you.

Take the time you need to understand the subtle signs that women give which demonstrate their interested. If you think about it and understand the meaning behind the signals you will be able to quickly identify when a woman may be attracted to you or showing signs of flirting. That will get you off to the right start.