In the mind of a woman, the worst thing a man can be is desperate. This is a careful balance for men because they see that a woman likes an attentive man, but not one that is so attentive he is desperate! This seems like it is a contradiction in and of itself, but when you follow three simple steps you'll find that you can make just about any woman take notice of you.

The first thing that you need to do is make sure that you are socially relevant. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who is successful not only in terms of work or school but also socially. The biggest attraction that women have is to a man who they know is wanted by other women. When a man is surrounded by other women, he can generally have his pick of any woman because women are subconsciously attracted to the man who is wanted by others.

The next thing you need to do is make sure that you are confident. Many men struggle with confidence and when you struggle with confidence you will struggle with women. Work hard to feel comfortable with who you are and where you have come from. When you are comfortable with yourself women will be too, and the rest is history! Many men have to do the whole "fake it until you make it" bit with their confidence, and this is fine as long as you can fake it well!

Of course, the best thing a man can do is not show too much interest in a woman. A man who shows too much interest will be boring to a woman and she may view you as desperate. You may even become her project, which is never a good thing and will likely end with you being her friend! Instead, you need to act almost indifferent toward her, as this will make her pursue you instead of the other way around. There is nothing more delightful than a woman working to get your attention and when you behave in this way you will find that she will do just that!

As you can see, women are not all that difficult to understand, you just need to know how they work. Instead of trying to approach women the way you yourself would approach things, you have to keep in mind that they do not necessarily think the way that you do. When you follow these simple tips suddenly you'll have the pick of all of the women in your life!