The way you pass a message definitely has a part in the way the intended recipient takes it. Picture this - are you inclined to respond to a person who wants to get your attention by whistling or by addressing you as ?Hey you? or someone who politely calls you by your name and then makes their request? Definitely you will be inclined to respond to the polite guy as it shows they are respectful and value you as a person. This applies to the letter in your invitations to guests to your wedding day ceremony and reception. Whether it is an invite to the bridesmaids, flower girls or the ring bearer, the way you send that invite really matters.

And what better way to do that other than a cookie-gram? Forget calling them even though you have their number on your finger tip. Forget the email or the fax or the postal letter. All these are excellent modern means of communications but for your biggest day only; confine them to the annals of obsolete communication inventions. Though usable and effective, these means won't be able to provide that personalized touch that will convey the value and importance you place on that person you are inviting.

The best way thus to bridge that gap is through a cookie-gram. Cookie-grams can be customized, that's the main upside. You can have practically any shape or size of a cookie-gram to carry your invitation note. What's more you can have them engraved with the message and/or the name of the recipient. The message is customizable to different recipients, which in this case are flower girls, bridesmaids, ring bearer, groomsmen, maid of honor, matron of honor and other people that will play an important role in the success of your happiest of days.

Genuine invites are all about touching the hearts of the people you are inviting. Respect, value, style and the connotation that you treasure them all go hand in hand in your invites to people. You can bet that no person would really resist or snub such an exquisite personalized invite and for sure they will come whole-heartedly not as to an event that is distracting them from their important daily routines.

Designs that you can use for your cookie-grams include customized beautiful gowns that would carry a request like if someone would like to be your bridesmaid. To the flower girls, think of something like a flower-shaped cookie with your heartwarming request emblazoned on them. They may be younger than you but value and trust in them transcends all that and go that extra mile and touch their hearts. To the ring bearer, get them a ring shaped cookie with your message attached. The symbolism will not get lost on them before they even read the message you have attached.

In essence, this just shows that even though other means of sending your invites are available and usable, you can do it in a way that will readily deliver instant and whole-hearted warm responses. So before you sit down and start drafting those wedding day invites, spare a thought for cookie-grams and make good use of them.