A baby shower is a party or celebration, normally given by a best friend, close family member, or co-worker of the mom-to-be, that occurs several months before the birth of a new baby in which expectant parents receive gifts or money for their expected child. So, customarily, it was considered inappropriate for a family member to host as the event focuses on openhanded donation of gifts. The underlying intention behind this intention is to aid, help, and facilitate parents in getting the required things of usage for their children (like basic layette items). It is a topical custom popularized by US culture and media. Vast majorities of baby showers are attended by women, a small percentage of men do attend or have "daddy showers" of their own. Traditionally, baby showers have been for the first child only, but some parents choose to have baby showers for second and even third babies (especially in the case of adopted child).

However, all Americans do not conduct baby shower parties due to some ethno-religious differences. Many American Jews, for instance, do not buy anything before a baby is born as per their customs.

Baby Shower Etiquettes

Arrangement for a Baby Shower: Seek advice from the expecting parents about programs, schedules, guest list, to ascertain that their favorite guests are present, their pet tasks, programs, and activities are performed. The menu must also be set as per the fancy of the expecting couple. Moreover, the party must be held near to the date of conception as this increases exhilaration. The invitations are to be sent minimum 3-4 weeks in advance. Invitation card must include the necessary info like names of the parents expecting a child, their registry information, venue of the party, and RSVP details. Also, it's perfectly fine to mention the theme of the party in the invitation card.

Last, but not the least, apply KISS (keep it short and sweet) rule; 2-3 hours are enough. More than this could stress the mother-to-be physically.

If you decide to schedule a shower for after the baby is born, that's fine, too. Then guests can bring gifts specific to the baby's sex. And with a baby as the centerpiece, you'll have a surefire icebreaker and conversation topic.

Avoid a surprise baby showers, as they can either be wonderful and exciting, or terribly awkward for the mom-to-be. If you are confident that a surprise baby shower will be a hit, then only plan one.

Rules for guests at Baby Shower:

Some ideal baby shower gifts incorporate: blankets, newborn pajama sets, wearable blankets, baby loungers, wearable baby carriers, baby basket, diaper dispensers or disposers, fashionable diaper bags, memory books, strollers, and bottle/supply bags. Whether you're attending a baby shower or planning one, bear in mind that it's a fête for commemorating a new life full of innocence into the world, so pour all your love on him / her and make merry.