The rules and guidelines that govern dating a woman are similar the world over and Russian women are no exception. They want to be treated with respect and kindness, do these simple things and you will be half-way there. Women from Russia are known to be strikingly attractive and intelligent; they also place a high value on family life and relationships. If you have set your heart on a Russian bride, then there are a few guidelines you need to pay attention to when dating one.

If you are to attract a Russian woman it is necessary to look good. This doesn't mean you have to be drop dead gorgeous or packed with muscles, but you do need to show that you take care in your appearance. A well cut hairstyle and clean, stylish clothes will make a big impression and will ensure you receive the interest you want.

Be very careful if a Russian woman asks to lend money from you. Generally they will be too proud to ask and so if this is the case then that might be a warning to you that it is all she is interested in. Obviously if you have known each other for a lengthy period of time and you feel the need is genuine, then it is your choice. Judge the situation with care before lending any money. If you have only just started to communicate with a woman and she immediately pleads for cash then you should take flight.

The first time you contact your Russian lady will be via a letter or email, whichever it is it has to be written. Although many Russian girls are educated and can speak English, there are many that don't and written skills might not be as proficient. Take care to write in a simple and amusing mode that will be easy for her to understand and reply to. When she writes back to you then you will be able to see how high or low her level of English is and write accordingly. There are translation services that can re-write your letter into Russian if you need so as she can read the letter herself.

When you date a Russian girl, honesty is always the best policy, as it is within any relationship. More so with an overseas relationship as you have to trust each other as you are not there to see what the truth actually is. If you start off telling her lies or even exaggerating you assets or looks, she is likely to either see through you or eventually find out the truth and end the relationship. Russian women are educated and intelligent; they value respect, honesty and loyalty and expect the same from their partner.

Learning a little about Russia and the culture can go a long way. Every country has its individual traditions and beliefs and you have to be aware of these so as not to make any dreadful mistake or something that could cause upset. It will also be viewed by her that you are serious about the relationship.

Keep your letters light and chatty. Girls like fun guys with a sense of humor so try to show your personality in the letter. Don't be too formal or only write about boring subjects. Also don't tell her in the very first letter that you love her or some other similar display of affection! This will only result in you scaring her off. It takes time for a couple to get to know each other and see if you are compatible before any emotions can be discussed. Take it slowly and this will be appreciated. When writing to her always ask after her family and ask questions about her life, show her you are interested in what she is doing.

So, you have been corresponding for some time with what you hope is the woman of your dreams. Now it is time to travel to her country and actually meet face to face. When you get there it is likely that you will be invited to the family home to meet her parents. The Ukrainians and Russians are welcoming and friendly people and will make you feel a very special guest. They will have prepared a traditional meal and might even have lots of gifts for you! Take something to show them you appreciate their invitation; similar to other countries it is customary to take a bottle of wine or even flowers. Dress casual but smart, remember to take your shoes off before you enter the house and don't refuse any food as it is considered rude.

Online you will find dating and matchmaking services who can organize for you to start corresponding with Russian women. They can also give you any help or advice concerning Russia and The Ukraine and translation services.