What I mean is - if you don't know what he feels about you, that is a huge indicator that you two do not have the kind of open-book communication that it takes to have a healthy and secure relationship. You certainly want to avoid going down that road again, don't you? From my own experiences, I know that is a horrible feeling to have.

But its not all about just feeling horrible, either. You could lose your man if the communication does not correct itself between you. Your boyfriend may already be thinking about LEAVING and you won't even know it.

I hear you asking me -- what can I possibly do to correct this? Well it just so happens that I have a few simple steps you can take to begin making your relationship communication right again.

The first simple dating tip is to quit trying to get inside HIS mind. You need to get inside YOUR mind first. Remember that at ALL times you are in complete control of your actions, words, reactions and communication. The first step toward fixing anything is to start with yourself.

Secondly - you need to think and act in a positive fashion. If you react negatively to him by becoming clingy or whiney when you think something is wrong, you are only going to drive the stake deeper into the heart of the vampire if you know what I mean. If you expect the worst - you will get the worst.

Dating tip number three - listen to him UNDERNEATH the words. Trust your intuition, and really think beyond what he is saying. If you have questions about your relationship, you need not voice them and make him uncomfortable - look at all the signs. Keep your questions tumbling about in your head and look for your own answers.

The fourth and possibly most important tip I will give you is to learn to correctly interpret what your intuition is telling you. Let's say you've been cheated on before and now you have the sinking feeling that your current boyfriend is cheating on you as well. He is acting sneaky and odd. But later you may come to find out that he is planning a surprise birthday party for you. This was not at all what you thought was going on.

The point is - don't let your insecurities cloud your intuition. You may think something is going on, but in reality, it could be totally opposite of what you think it is. Allow it to play itself out without jumping to conclusions. If you want to read more dating tips and relationship advice, click below.