One of the most challenging, and somehow pleasing, dilemmas of guys is to learn how to attract girls. If truth be told, women just want the same thing. They need a man that can give them security, they want a man with passion and purpose, they want a man that will treat them as equal and yet as a princess too.

The very basic step to attract girls is to be confident. It may sound redundant but confidence can really make or break your purpose. For a woman, a confident man is a sexy man. You don't have to power-dress to appear confident because if you really have it inside, it will show.

Another tip in attracting girls is to be observant. Observing is different from stalking. The latter can be creepy and the last thing you want to do is to spook your lady love. Just pay attention with her favorite drink, her mannerisms and any small things that revolves around her. This knowledge can help you a lot in making your moves.

The third rule in attracting girls is to take everything seriously in a fun-filled manner. Show your true intentions to her in a way where you can make her smile or laugh. Don't be pushy but subtle insist what you want. Ask her for a dance, if she declines, gauge her feelings. If you think she meant "NO" then don't push it. If you think she meant "no" then try to invite her again. You'll know the difference between the two no's when it's directly said to you.

Guys if you are serious about getting the girl of your dreams then you need to seriously work on solid techniques to achieve your goal. If you know what a girl is thinking it is far easier to approach her.

People mostly wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say?