Ho! Ho! Ho! It's time to play Santa. This Christmas, and holiday season, you should give your special lover at least one present that cannot be opened in front of anyone. This is a great way to get in a little extra time with one another. You might find yourself looking for something romantic, kinky, or even something that will seduce your lover. No matter what you are looking for it's important to keep in mind that there are some things you will not want to give your other half this Christmas.

First, you need to assess the person you are buying this adult-themed present for. Are they somewhat straight-laced? Are they adventurous, romantic, or downright wild? It is important you keep this in mind because not all people are going to like all adult-themed gifts. Some people are going to like roleplay ideas while others might end up blushing at a common vibrator. Buy something based on the sexual appetite and adventure ranking the person already has.

Buying for a Woman

If you want to avoid a disastrous event when you watch her unwrap her present this year you should consider your gift giving goals. If you want to romance her, penis shaped candles and dicky soap on a rope is not going to be a good idea. While, these make good light hearted or gag gifts they do not fit in well in the romance department.

Similarly, if you are attempting to buy her lingerie, buy her something in a fabric that flatters her. If you are not sure what she likes to wear try looking in her closet. You should be able to get a general idea from what you find. If you see an abundance of satin do not go out on a limb and buy lace. Chances are she has that much satin for a reason.

Go with what you see! Also, make absolutely sure you buy her the right sizes. Sneak into her panty drawer and check before you buy. Buying her something in the wrong size will make it virtually useless and she probably will not be too thrilled you thought she was bigger (or smaller) than she is.

Recap:

When you are looking for good romantic gifts avoid the following:

1)No whips for good girls

2)No wrong sized garments

3)No dicky soap, candles, or anything else

Instead buy her the following:

1)A waterproof toy

2)A beginner anal or vaginal toy

3)A paddle for someone into BDSM

Something that looks sexy and will fit

Buying for a Man

When it comes to sexy gifts for men there are only a few things you need to avoid. These are fairly common things. For starters, avoid things you know he won't like. If he doesn't own one thong do not assume this one is going to be the one to convert him. Most men are very underwear loyal. If he wears boxers then find him a sexy pair, but do not assume you can convince him to wear something else.

If you are toy shopping, do not focus on things you can use on him. While you might think these things are romantic they could actually be a turn-off. If he is not interested in anal toys, restraints, or whips then you will either end up buying him something that he can use on you or something like massage oil, which is nice but not something just for him. Consider buying him a masturbatory toy such as a love doll, and inflatable doll, or a handheld device for private moments alone.

Recap:

When you are looking for good romantic gifts for him avoid the following:

1)No whips, chains, or restraints for men that don't want to be tied up

2)No anal toys for men that have never spoken of anal sex

3)No thongs for boxer boys

Instead buy him the following:

1)A beginner anal toy for a curious possible receiver

2)A sexy pair of boxers or briefs(thongs if he wears them)

3)A masturbator

Additionally, a nice couple's gift might be sexual furniture. You will find that no matter what you buy him or her, this furniture will definitely enhance any sexual experience so the different forms of furniture are worth the consideration.