You must admit that changing women lovers may be fun, but it is better for us to have a stable relationship - especially if the loved one seems to be the perfect match. But how can we know if the woman is perfect for us? If she has the 8 characteristics you should make plans for the future, if you are not attentive another man can choose her.

1. She is independent

Nobody wants a lover that needs constant pampering. Sometimes, after a hard day, it must be necessary; it is Ok to be there for her but if she complains of everything...this is not Ok. She is the perfect match if she has her own opinions, if she has a strong personality and if she is financially and morally independent (no woman should relay on the money that daddy or the lover gives her).

2. She is intelligent

Let's get serious, blondes that laugh all the time are for one period only, you would not introduce them to family or friends. The perfect lover must be witty, sociable and know the difference between a bad joke and a good one. Understand this: intelligence does not mean lots of studies but wit.

3. She is compatible with you

She is your match, sexually, spiritually, intellectually...or whatever you wish for. You don't need to be identical but you need to have the same vision on reality, dream about the same things, have the same wishes - a possible future together is to be seen. And if sex is the issue, let's say she needs to be compatible.

4. She respects you

This is important, right? Your girlfriend needs to show you respect. This means she takes your opinion into consideration even if she does not agree with it; she respects your opinions and treats you right, both publicly and privately.

5. She lets you be a man

She does not oblige you to eat salad and fruit, give up your meetings with friends, does not make decisions for you and knows what your part in the relationship is. A woman that is too possessive is not good for any man.

6. She does not reinforce the same issues

Nothing is worse than a talkative woman. The perfect friend is communicative and knows how to convince you without being obsessively talkative. Evidently, if you go out at night and not call her, no matter how perfect she is, you might expect a bit of a fight - because, well she may be right.

7. She goes along well with your family and friends

Incredibly, but your mother who hated all your girlfriends, adores her and praises you for having her. When it comes to your friends...they do not invite only you but you together. They praise her and tell you that your relationship is Ok.

8. She loves you

If you find a woman to love the real you, not what you pretend to be, or does not love you for your assets, she is a great woman and you need to take good care of her - such women are on verge of extinction.