Look around you and you'll notice a proven system in action.

From understanding your emotional brain to how it works to what actually happens to you, what you undergo when you experience stress.

When you can VISUALIZE how your thinking can influence your feelings, you can use the strategies multiple times. You will begin to follow a SPECIFIC set of procedures and instructions.

It's no wonder successful people can achieve and get so much done...

... Because they have a PROVEN SYSTEM!

But unfortunately, not everyone in the world uses a PROVEN SYSTEM to survive personal stress.

And now you can understand why people are suffering in their life dramas.

In order for a system to be considered PROVEN, it must first generate results that are:

1) Predictable 2) Repeatable

The reason why gambling is NOT a PROVEN SYSTEM and cannot be considered a fruitful activity (for the casual gambler) is because you can neither ACCURATELY predict your next win, nor repeat your previous win ALL the time!

The bottom line: If you want to BEAT your life dramas every time, learn and use a PROVEN SYSTEM!

Before we end today's lesson, I want to share with you two very important psychological concepts.

I call them the TWO IMMUTABLE LAWS OF EMOTION.

1st Immutable Law of Emotion - EXPRESS EMOTION

If you want to succeed emotionally, always remember that you need to EXPRESS EMOTION.

There are four ways you can express emotion.

1. Understand and effectively express how you feel about various issues; that is, in the right way, to the right degree and at the right time.

2. Effectively utilise and be confident in using non-verbal emotional cues, for example, body language and tone of voice, to communicate how you feel.

3. Create greater understanding about yourself amongst your family, firends, and colleagues.

4. Be genuine and trustworthy.

In other words, before you start applying your system to survive personal stress ask yourself how you can express yourself in one or more ways above.

2nd Immutable Law of Emotion - RECOGNIZE EMOTION.

There are many ways you can reognize emotion, but here are four.

1. In today's stressful environment, there is a need to recognize emotion in yourself and in others.

2. Be open to emotions; be attentive to whether words, voice tone, and body language match.

3. Become good at picking up when people are saying something that differs from reality.

4. Pay attention and pick up on the mood of a room or your environment.

The truth is, people BEHAVE, both passively and aggressively.They want to deal with their pain and joy - and will often blame out. Therefore, do develop your unique ability to recognize and express emotion and BEAT your life drama.

That's all for today.

Next time, I'm going to share with you the first step in my PROVEN Stress- Busting Success System that has helped thousands of people survive personal stress. For additional information on Surviving Personal Stress check out my website.

Till then!

Karen Gosling

Counselor for Emotional Wealth

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