Soul Mate Test: NO is about boundaries and identification.

You have to know who you are if you want to find someone to be perfect for you. Usually most of us need to become better focused about things we would like. This is true for all things, from everyday practical matters to dealing with distressing feelings. The puzzle is to be able to achieve that clarity and then to find the solutions to problems. The 7 Words System offers a unpretentious insightful means that permits us to achieve a greatly improved appreciation of what exactly we are trying to find. This opens with No. Primarily we need to define faithfully what it is that actually we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Soul Mate Test: HELLO is about openness and exchange.

Look around and see what's happening, to you, to others...learn what works for others and think about it carefully. The following step concerns the word Hello. We need to make ourselves open to new potential if we have a desire to develop our possibilities of solutions to the many difficulties that often arise for us. Is that reasonably logical? To get something new we will need to draw out our scope and look where we have not previously looked previously. New thoughts, new people, new situations and new things are clearly facets of giving attention to something we have not previously gone through. It calls us to exchange old for new, that can tender something in fair return for what we want to acquire for ourselves.

Soul Mate Test: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.

How well are you expressing your appreciation? Can you find qualities to admire in people you meet; the best qualities are usually deeper, often hidden. Between all available options, some are more desirable than others and of course we want them to have a higher meaning, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Habitually, we forget the importance of what we have, fall into thanklessness and are likely to presume things will always be the way they have been before. It's more than merely a courtesy to demonstrate our appreciation for things we cherish; it has a major effect in helping us to realize our ends. In some unconscious way, we are drawn to what we express our thanks for, and yet it's equally valid to say that we can to draw them to us too. We develop magnetism when we say Thanks and therefore, when we do so, we effortlessly bring things towards us.

Soul Mate Test: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.

Are you willing to realize that after finding a soul mate life has changed and will be forever different. Are you willing to change? The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and concerns a course of development that has 4 clearly defined phases. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. Goodbye is being said to a particular stage of development, and so is to be perceived plainly as total dismissal of a possible course of action that we had been stepping towards and in future will not engage in. It is a crossroad point in our range of would-be futures. Goodbye is different from No in that it implies that there has been a degree of connection already, which now needs to end compared to No's rejection in the first place. Proper decisions cut the past away utterly and that sharpness forms an opening of a doorway that otherwise does not come to exist.

Soul Mate Test: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.

How do you cooperate to find harmony? You do have a vision of a successful partnership? The future reveals itself according to the routines of what has gone before unless we take control of it and shape it to our wants. This compels us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, particular and positive converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is a bit unreal and the second is much more concentrated and willful. For a vision to become real there must be cooperation. Nothing can be finished without earning the aid of other people - this takes expertise, perhaps influence, even inspiration. It is not always obligatory to offer something such as money or money's worth.