It could be at the grocery store, coffee shop, internet, night club - whatever. The fact remains, as we go through our lives, one opportunity with women after another comes our way.
But how often do YOU take advantage of these opportunities?
I'm willing to bet its not that many.
If you just took advantage of ONE of these opportunities every day, that means in just one year, you'd meet 365 women.
Out of 365 women, wouldn't at least ONE of those women be worth keeping around?
So what's keeping us from doing so? Why do we allow such opportunities with women pass us by?
Some guys would say that its "fear of rejection" that's keeping us at bay, but I don't agree with that.
The reality is we get rejected in our lives all the time. If we were truly afraid of rejection, we wouldn't be able to operate in every-day society.
The reality is we tend to PUNISH ourselves when things don't go right with a woman.
Think about it...
How many times have you beat yourself up over saying the wrong thing, or saying nothing at all?
How often have you made yourself feel dumb and hurt at "blowing your shot" with a girl?
How many times have you called yourself "stupid" or a "loser" when things didn't go your way?
The fact is - we are constantly TOO HARD on ourselves when it comes to interacting with women.
We beat ourselves down mercilessly and lay HUGE amounts of guilt on ourselves, just because we failed at meeting a new woman.
In the "real world," its no big deal. The girl moves on with her life, and you move on with yours.
But that self-punishment for failure can last a long, long time.
We make ourselves feel SO BAD, that our brain wants to avoid such punishment in the future by KEEPING us from approach women!
This is where the dreaded APPROACH ANXIETY comes from.
Feeling nervous about approach women is a self defense mechanism to keep us from experiencing the pain we inflict on ourselves when something doesn't go the way we want it to.
And it all stems from the BEATING we give ourselves.
You must learn to congratulate yourself for trying, rather than beating yourself up for failing, if you want to meet tons of beautiful, smart, fun, and amazing women.
You have to understand that if a woman doesn't go for what you have to offer, it's not a reflection of your self worth. Its simply a learning process.
The more you do it, the better you get at it!
And the secret is - meeting women becomes easier the less you beat yourself up over the interactions that don't go well.
