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And that is a bit sad.
There are so many women that has the ability to be a great girlfriend.
But I had my brain up my butt.
...maybe that's a little harsh.
But it comes to TWO different problems:
First, I tried to prove something to myself. I was still a recovering nerd. And I've never fully recovered. And stopped trying to recover. And that's what's made me move past this "proving myself" thing.
I just accepted who I am.
Sure, I like video games and comic books.
But...
Do you believe girls have cooler interests?
Is shopping, getting drunk and Myspace are cooler than what I'm into?
It's all are the same.
Self-acceptance is what really matters.
A girl won't accept you if you don't accept yourself first.
Can you picture out a woman wanting to be your girlfriend and you don't like yourself?
She will HATE to be with you and not wanting to be around with you.
Because if you don't like yourself, you can't really like her. And if you do like her, but not yourself, then you look like a total loser. And who wants to date a loser?
It may sound easy, but self-acceptance is hard to do. How many times have you hear these from people "I don't care what anyone thinks of me!"
Based on my experience, almost all DON'T ACCEPT themselves completely.
And I am one of them.
The amount on how you accept yourself is the amount also on how women find you attractive, and people want to be around you.
It may be hard to completely accept yourself. There is an old beliefs creep in and saying you are not enough, that you must be more than yourself now.
The degree to which your game becomes better is if you know the degree to which you stop these thoughts.
Because the real game is about yourself and not doubting about yourself. And the game doesn't end after your opener, after a few dates, after "making love." It never ends that way.
Because it is you.
You are not separated from your game.
Your game IS YOU. The "game" is the degree to which you can express who you really are.
"But I'm nervous and insecure and awkward" you might be thinking. I disagree. That's not you.
That is the indistinct you.
That is you trying to come out, but the one that stop you from expressing what you really want to express is your ego and your old mental habits.
Before I proceed deeper, I want first to go to the second reason why I couldn't keep girls around after sleeping with them.
I am not aware of shaping.
Knowing what you want is really just an extension of self-acceptance. And shaping is all about knowing what YOU want. If you don't know what you want, you can't shape.
In fact, what applied to others is self-acceptance. You know what you like, and you encourage girls to be that for you.
As you know, women are very flexible. They have many sides that they can reveal to a man. Guys usually tell women to be selfish, mean, and act like they are better than a guy.
But it's not the woman's fault. She's just doing what she's told. Women are always looking to men to get a sense of reality.
So if you approach and treat a woman like a pedestal, she will act accordingly.
If you approach her and treat her like she's lucky you talked to her, she'll feel that way.
Same through after mating, if you treat her like she should stay in your life and nurture your lifestyle, she will do so.
This was tackled deeper in our workshop. I've developed a lot of things to shape a woman to be EXACTLY the kind of woman I want in my life.
Women are different from each other. Like for instance, I may want a girl to be just a partner in bed. I may want another woman to be a sugar mama! I may want another one to be a girlfriend. It all depends on what you want.
I used to remember all the crappy, frustrating relationships I have.
Also I think all the hookups I had as a young pickup artist, and how frustrating it was not see those women again.
But when I began to accept myself and analyze what I wanted, it all came together.
The Attraction Code is a about figuring out who you are, accepting and cultivating your character, and then applying that to the women you want to meet, date, and sleep with.
If you're struggling with self acceptance and letting the real YOU shine through The Attraction Code is a MUST HAVE.
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