Child birth is one of the most natural events in a women's life yet it strikes fear in many of our hearts and voices. There is so much knowledge on child birth and child care how do we know we are doing the right thing. The countless books, and advice can make any women's head swirl, and it is important for the mom - to - be to remember is isn't as complicated as it sounds.

It's simple - child birth is a natural and beautiful gift given to women in order to conceive precious lives full of wonder. It is a wondrous event which should be cherished and remembered. Once your baby is born you will look into her eyes with fond delight, and see a new beginning for your life, and family.

In order to prepare for that future you should ask yourself if you are ready for your first child birth experience. The room is ready, the clothes are bought, and the toys are well stocked right up until she turns the age of three. Your due date is getting closer, your back is getting sorer, and you can feel the baby kicking more, and you are counting the fingers on your hand until your delight is born.

The only internal fear you maybe facing is the actual child birth itself, and there are several ways to prepare yourself for the unknown. Before giving birth ensure you pack a hospital bag ahead of schedule; including your basic necessities. But, also don't forget the luxuries which will make your birth more enlightening, and comfortable. Here are six essential items which will make your child birth painless:

Make sure you pack a comfortable night gown to ensue optimum freedom for you to move and get comfortable during your labor.

Soothing music will take your focus away from the pain.

Massage oil is a wonderful tool in assisting in alleviating the pain and will make your partner play an important role during the birthing hours.

A harlequin romance novel nothing a little bit more savory to keep your mind concentrated on anything but child birth.

Last but not least snacks, lots of good snacks to help you and your partner get through the longs hours of labor.

Champagne it will be time to celebrate once the new bundle of joy arrives and what's better than a great toast with lots of bubbly.

A few but needful necessities will help create a better atmosphere your birthing room, making you feel at ease, as you bring in a new breath of life into your world. It is an exciting time, and should be one filled with rest, comfort, and joy – on the arrival day make sure you look into your babies precious eyes and savor every minute of life.

“Speak tenderly to them. Let there be kindness in your face, in your eyes, in your smile, in the warmth of our greeting. Always have a cheerful smile. Don't only give your care, but give your heart as well.” This is powerful advice from Mother Teresa and is relevant to anyone who is to have their first baby.