Making love at times can be a challenge for you, specially incases where you are not very sexually experienced and equipped with the rightkind of moves while making love. The situation can become even difficult forpeople if their partner is a master of lovemaking. Performance anxiety isnatural in such situations and the result is a pathetic sexual experience.
Just because you are new to sex does not means that you can nothave a great sex with an experienced partner. Some basic techniques can helpyou get the best.
Do not try tobe a jack of everything- Master one thing
Master an art perfectly, it can be kissing, stroking or massaging.This will give your experienced partner a positive feeler and he/she willdefinitely love it.
Be sure ofwhat you are doing and do it confidently
While on bed you can experiment a lot of things but don't let youpartner know that you are just trying it out to see if it works or not. Be veryconfident as if you are a master of things you are doing. If you're not feelingconfident, give it some time and then get intimate. If you are not comfortablein doing things you are doing, it can turn out to be a major turn off.
Be Prepared
If you are suffering from any physical disorder, even to a minorextent, do not avoid it.It can bepremature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction (men). One has to ensure that theyovercome it before going on for a sexual encounter with an experienced partner.Pills like Viagra and Cialis are very effective for suchpeople.
Relax
Just because your partner is an experienced love maker, does notmeans that you will be nervous or anxious. Forget his sexual past; think as ifhe is just like you. Relax!! Have a glass of wine and listen to some goodmusic, it will help you.
Do not feelshy in taking your chances
Suppose thing have gone well and you really are enjoying yourselfand know that your partner too is having fun and then he or she does somethingthat you have never tried before. Do not panic in such cases, see how you feel.If it works-fabulous. If you are uncomfortable-speak to him/her softly aboutit.
