1) How to discover whether my loved one really fancies me?

Good question. I'll try to be very tactful here. What about this - if you really fancies your partner how would you show that? How would you make it obvious for your loved one to notice that you really like him or her?

Basically - you demonstrate your liking toward the guy or girl, right? You show interest in what that person says, maybe even look up at the person for nice things he or she does and certainly show affection in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes glisten when looking at the significant one. You seem so keen to be in his or her company with the guy or girl.

Can you perceive that kind of fondness from your partner? Is he or she interested in you? Put forward sympathy? Check it out.

2) How to build up the love between us?

True affection basically depends on feeling agreement in your heart and I would say admire the way the other person looks and what he or she tells you. So, you can try to look good for your partner and ALSO make your best to be more interesting in your partner's eyes. Make notes what your partner likes in the way you look and enhance just that. And, on the contrary, you might consider hiding the things that your partner would not like to see in you.

I am not talking about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people consider that you should be, because there lays depression and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about having your guys' time together as smoothly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.

And I certainly suggest you give compliments to things you adore about your partner. And, on the contrary, suggest some small betterment, but very gently and never demanding. For example: "You know, that tie would look so great on you, why wouldn't you put it on?"

I talk more in my free couple compatibility report to know more about being interesting to your partner.

3) The hardest thing about keeping a love alive is not to get angry on your spouse.

I certainly agree with that. According to the knowledge I gained, people can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that happened to him in the past. And those reactions can happen with no control over them from his part.

One good thing about it - the more rested we are and the better our temper is, the less is the probability that such reactions can happen to us. So my advice is - rest more and do your best to keep your mood in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my forthcoming articles.