Is he married or are women just too suspicious? Well the fact of the matter is that men do like to bite off more than they can chew and this usually does involve cheating on their spouse at some time. If you are in a relationship with a man and haven't determined for absolute certainty whether he's married or not, you are being a fool to yourself.

Have you met any of his friends yet? Most men share the same friend circle as their wife which means that one word from a friend and they're exposed for the rats that they are.

Listening to your friends is a good way to get your emotions back into check, friends don't always say things that we want to hear but they have been close to you for a long time and really do have your best interests at heart. Some of the time the green eyed monster comes out when your friends are trying to give you some sound advice, you start to think that they may be after your man and that's why they are trying to put doubts into your head.

Doubts are a good thing, they are what make us think things through or stay focused, emotions on the other hand tend to blind us and make us ignore what could be the facts.

If your friends do ask the question "is he married" they are only making sure that you have asked or found out for yourself, without knowing for sure, he could have a wife and a couple of kids at home.

What's going to be worse for you, finding out that he's married now or later? If you find out now it will hurt, if you find out later you may have a lot more emotions tied up in the relationship, you may even find yourself pregnant which is going to hurt a lot more. A married man who is cheating hardly ever leaves his wife because he is so used to having the best of both worlds so if you dump him you can guarantee that he's just going to move on to his next conquest, is this the type of man that you want in your life?

Flattery and affection are great especially if you've been without them for some time but just as a dog can smell fear, a man can sense when you're vulnerable. Many women don't ask themselves "is he married" because they really don't want to know, they are enjoying the attention that they are receiving however misguided they are.

Having been in this situation and finding out quite far down the line, I really would have rather found out the truth in the first couple of weeks.