First the stats Almost 10 % of 10 year old kids wet the bed occasionally, you are not alone! After the age of 5 years only 15 % children will become dry every year without treatment. In most cases treatment of bedwetting should begin between 6-7 years only, anything before that and there is good chance that your kid will grow out of it.
Bedwetting is a developmental issue, something the child does during sleep without prior knowledge. Do NOT blame / punish the child or yourself. Your kid is not being lazy or stubborn, he really does not know. What the child needs is reassurance and encouragement. Bedwetting tends to run in families, so if it is true, telling the child 'daddy used to do this' may help increase their self esteem.
Treatment Options Simplified
Before going to the doctor Sleep half an hour early - a less tired child is going to sleep 'light' and therefore is more likely to wake up to go to the bathroom. Lots of water in the day, restricted fluid at bedtime (not more than half a glass 2 hours before sleeping), avoid caffeine (carbonated fizzy drinks)
Star chart and positive reinforcement - Put stars (or stickers) on a calendar in the child's room for every dry night. IF the child remains dry continuously for a few days, give him some small reward (if this does not work for around 15 days, get a doctor's opinion)
Just What The Doctor Ordered
Remember that any bedwetting beyond 6-7 years can have a lot of social consequences like other kids making fun of the child, difficulty in sleeping over with friends and relatives etc. More importantly only about 1 in 6 kids every year will outgrow this problem after this age spontaneously, therefore get it treated. 3 major treatment options are:
DDAVP
It is a hormone that is usually present in the body and this leads to a decreased urine production at night. It is said that a deficiency of this hormone may lead to bedwetting, therefore treating the child with a tablet or a nasal spray may be useful for preventing bedwetting. This is especially very effective for 'emergencies' like social occasions night outs etc. where rapid control is needed. The only problem is that long term treatment is needed since on stopping this medicine there is a high chance that bedwetting will recur.
Bedwetting alarms are now available at leading pharmacies in India too, and over a period of around 3 months they are very useful in decreasing/ stopping bedwetting altogether. For quicker relief these may be combined with DDAVP. Imipramine tablets are a cheaper treatment option however these have significant side-effects like nervousness, tiredness and intestinal problems. Remember for most kids bedwetting is nothing more than an inconvenience or at worse a social problem.
When To Worry?
If a previously dry child starts bedwetting Daytime bedwetting in an older child amy be because of Diabetes, Urinary tract infection or psychological problems like sibling rivalry etc. If you have any queries regarding bedwetting or want to know more it then please visit http://www.simplyanswer.com and post your queries online.
