Most small business owners and independent professionals start their business primarily because they have knowledge and skills that are in demand. While they understand on an intellectual level that they have to market and sell, often it does not register as such emotionally. As a result business owners tend to view marketing as a necessary evil and in many cases harbor feelings that damage their effectiveness. They loaved the thought of being pestered by salespeople in their previous jobs and do not want to "be one of them." As a result, they tend to concentrate on aspects of their business that were the reason they chose their business to begin with, the actual application of their knowledge or skills.

What is a marketing mentality and how is it developed? There are three components all that link together. The first component is belief. What are the inherent thoughts that affect our mentality? It encompasses our attitudes, thoughts, fears, expectations, and lack of experience. Our actions are shaped by what we think about, what we assume to be true and where we choose to focus. If the thoughts are negative or with the mindset to avoid then one will view marketing as undesirable and even dishonarable. It will manifest in self talk such as I don't deserve referrals, my marketing won't work anyway, I will look desperate, if my service or product is good the market will know that, I don't like networking etc.

The second component is behavior which is generally driven by our beliefs. The decisions made each day are crucial and negative thoughts about marketing affect the decisions we make. For example, how frequently do we plan our week and tell ourselves that on Tuesday we will focus on four hours of marketing. Tuesday morning rolls along and we receive a client call or an issue or problem with an employee and then rationalize that the marketing must be put off because these issues must be dealt with immediately. The issue is how often is this really the truth. In my experience working with clients the answer is rarely. Although we know that the marketing is important we let our negative beliefs affect our behavior. Before we know it the pipeline is dry and then some type of marketing activity is undertaken in an unplanned haphazard manner.

The third piece is relationship. In order to have consistent lead generation and sales there must be a relationship cultivated with an adequate amount of prospects. This is the major purpose of marketing. It is the adage of people do business with those they know, like and trust. Without a consistent and systematic marketing plan there will not be a sufficient lead generation process.

The linkage is very powerful. The beliefs affect the behaviors and the behaviors affect the ability to develop the relationships. The connectivity between these elements is extremely leveraged in both a positive and negative direction. When there are aligned the results are extraordinary and when they are not the results can be devastating.

So if you are in this quandary what can be done about it? First take time and make a list and write down what your beliefs are about marketing. Be honest and list as many as you can. Then ask yourself about whether these beliefs are really true or just simply a personal bias. Second, are you really absolutely sure what you believe is true or is it possible that it is not. Next evaluate how this belief affects your behavior and what would happen if this belief is changed. Try to reconstruct the thought to a more positive mindset. The next step is to translate those new thoughts into new behaviors. On of the best methods for accomplishing this is to schedule out time during your week and treat it as if it were an appointment with your best customer. You surely would not miss an appointment with your best client to deal with a task that was short of an emergency would you? After a short time these new behaviors will become habits and the rewards will follow.

If marketing is a struggle it is absolutely critical to engage in this marketing mentality process. Many companies with great services and products go out of business because they could not implement a consistent lead generation system. Most often that failure starts with the lack of a marketing mentality. The great news is that the necessary mentality can be developed with effort, focus and an open mind. You will amazed by the impact on your business.