I've asked some people in my mailing list on subject of couple compatibility, inquiring about their couple compatibility issues and what they want to know. I have had a lot of answers to that email, so it seems great idea to answer the 3 of the questions that I found interesting in this article. Let's see.

1) How to be sure my spouse really loves me?

Ok. I'll try to be very careful here. What do you think - if you indeed loves a guy or a girl how would you prove that? How would you make it evident for your spouse to get it that you really feel in love with him or her?

Basically - you make your best to show your fondness toward the guy or girl, right? You demonstrate that it is interesting what that person says, maybe even admire the person for something and certainly friendliness in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes glisten when looking at the significant one. You seem very eager about spending time together with the guy or girl.

Do you feel that kind of affection from your sweetheart? Is there some kind of interest in you? Show sympathy? Come on and test your feelings.

2) How to build up the feelings between us?

Real fondness basically depends on really agreeing and I would say admire what you see in the other person and what he or she tells you. So, you can try to look good for your partner and ALSO try to be more fascinating for your partner. If you note what your partner likes in the way you look and improve especially those things. And, to the opposite, you might consider hiding the things that your loved one rather not sees in you.

I am not advising about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people suggest that you should be, because there lays unhappiness and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about spending your guys' time together as pleasantly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.

And I certainly propose you give compliments to things you adore about your partner. And, on the contrary, gently propose some small improvement, but very gently and never demanding. As in: "You know, that tie would look so lovely on you, why wouldn't you take it today?"

I talk more in my free couple compatibility report to understand more about being interesting to your partner.

3) The hardest thing about maintaining a marriage alive is not to get annoyed on your partner.

Well, that's a hard one, I would say. Judging by the experience I gained, a person can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that happened to him in the past. And those reactions can happen with no control over them from his part.

One good thing about it - the more rested we are and the better our temper is, the less is the possibility that such reactions can happen to us. So my suggestion is - rest more and do your best to keep your mood in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my forthcoming articles.