Tip #1: Be around: Quite simply: the object of your love or infatuation needs to be able to see you in order to get to know you. Men are very visual. So, make yourself seen. One way to do this is to conveniently just ?happen? to show up for some aspect of his daily routine; observe what he tends to do and put yourself in his path. Be sure to dress nicely - even a bit sexy. Do not overdo the sexiness of your clothes, make-up or hair, though, since you want him to find you attractive and yet see you as a woman worthy of his respect.
Tip #2: Brush up on his interests: If your guy is like most men, his world is more or less all about him. Apart from his interest in women, this usually means his work, hobbies, and other interests. If you want gain admission into the theatre of his mind on a regular basis, it is helpful if you show interest in what he likes. So: find out what he likes and buy a magazine or take a class on the subject. Of course, it can be a real mistake to feign knowledge you do not have, since that could easily backfire on you. Come across as a beginner needing his guidance in learning some subject and you will get his attention.
Tip #3: Look into his eyes: Again, recall that men are very visual. We all know that feeling of warmth we get when someone looks directly into our eyes. Be sure to give him eye contact each time you see him. Look into his eyes for a couple of seconds, look away, and then find yourself gazing into his eyes again. He will definitely be impressed by your ability to connect with him so well.
Tip #4: Touch his arm lightly when talking: Okay, this one is an old trick but definitely worth repeating. Physical touching can bring on a very warm, inviting and often sensual feeling. Do not overdo this, though, since you do not want to seem obvious or easy. But, occasionally just lean against him a bit or brush against him gently with your arm when you walk past. After 2 or 3 such contacts, he catch on that you are not doing this accidentally. Word of caution: be especially careful implementing this tip at work.
We all love it when the attraction we feel for someone else is reflected right back at us. Life is too short not to be with the one we love or feel attracted to. It would be a shame for you to let a potential love connection pass you by just because you had not taken the time to find out what really works. Try these tips and make him notice you.
