No, it does not have to effect the wallet at all. Woman love the small gestures from her partner most of all. It can be as simple as asking her if she needs help with a chore she is doing, dishes, bringing laundry to her, or helping her bring in groceries. It may not seem romantic to a man, but these gestures show you care and love her. You may do something as simple as getting her car washed for her, or getting her oil changed.

Leaving her little notes around the house or in the car are a sure fire way to give her a smile. Make "her" special meal once in a while. You may even stop at one of her favorite restaurants on the way home from work and pick up her favorite dessert. You can draw her a nice bath with candles and music. There are many small gestures you can do for your lady they do not require a lot of time, money or effort.

These small gestures go a long long way in showing how much you care for her. Your partner needs these romantic gestures to feel needed loved and desired by you. You need to continually show your appreciation for her to feel your love.

It is important to realize that women do not want you to perform such acts of romance solely with the hopes of obtaining sex from her. You should perform these acts of romance to secure your love for her.

Romancing the man

Yes, ladies you can romance the man as well. Men love to feel appreciated as well. They also want to know you care and love them. You need to reciprocate the romance. They love to hear that you are thankful on how hard they work to help provide for the family. They want to hear thank you for gestures they do around the house.

Unfortunately, many woman may take their man for granted and not compliment them as much as they would like. If your man is usually home on the weekends and you have children, offer to watch the kids solely by yourself for an hour or so. Let him catch a quick nap, watch a show, or read a book. He will love you for it. Take turns he may do the same for you.

Think back to an activity you both used to enjoy together, but have not done in a long time. Make arrangements to do that activity. When you arrive back home thank him not only verbally but with some oral sex. He will be happy to enjoy another outing with you in the future.

Do a chore for him around the house once in a while that he normally does.

Men and woman both need romance. A happy healthy balance of romance within your relationship will insure a great relationship.