Try to understand that women deal with so many problems in their lives. There is family, career, friends, and so on. If you can clearly see and understand the conflicts in her life, then you can create a plan to execute your right timing.



If you have figured out the timing of asking a girl out, then you are on to your first date. The next step you have to remember is still to have the perfect time for your date. Try choosing a weeknight for your first date. You see, weekends usually got a lot of activities already planned a couple of days before that. You do not want your date to end in a jiffy or mingle with another event with her friends. This is another example of a bad timing too. It is safe to choose a weeknight. First dates do not really require you to both dress-up. A date after work is enough for a small conversation with each other in a relaxed not hurry kind of way.

But what if a girl says no when you asked her out? You should be able to have a plan B. If she is unavailable for the time and place, make sure you offer her another option. Is she still refuses, ask her what she has on mind. And if she gave you still a no answer, just excuse yourself that you are also busy. Just be cool if she rejects your offer and make an impression that you can search another girl who is worthy of your time.

However, just make sure that her excuse is something that is valid and true. Not all excuses are lame. If this is the case, you can give her your number and tell her that she can call you anytime she makes up her mind

Have a talent to analyze a woman's possibility to say yes to your offer. Again, you should be able to see the perfect timing. Below are tips you can take note when approaching a woman:

- Try to see and understand a woman's reason to say no

- Offer alternatives when asking a woman out for a date. You can also give her a chance to suggest for alternatives

- If you sense that a woman is not interested, excuse yourself and say you are also busy with so many things

- Weeknights are great for first dates

- Do not be afraid to ask a girl out, practice makes perfect

- Timing is crucial when asking a woman. So choose a perfect timing

- Never approach a woman out when she is with someone or with her friends. Wait for a moment when she is alone

- Just relax and smile if she declines your offer