Did you ever hear that line "Nice guys finish last?" Well, there's a small amount of truth to that comment. Many women are not as self assured as they might be and any woman who is a little bit insecure will sometimes inquire why a really outstanding guy would desire her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she will question what is wrong with you.



Are all women like this? Nope, certainly not! Many women have the self confidence to know what they want in a man and they'll expect to be treated well or they'll leave out of the relationship. But there are many women who tend to use the "grass is always greener" thought process. The dearest guy for them is the one just round the nook.

So, what do you do when a woman breaks up with you for apparently no reason at all?

The first thing you WON'T do is call her, text her or go visit her. She obviously took you for granted while you were together so let her have some time to miss you.

Try not to act like you're devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with acquaintances, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is effective because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer up.

The real question you need to think about is if you genuinely want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it. Is she really worth it? If you absolutely believe she's the one for you, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Repairing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there.

It's fairly likely that she'll call you if you haven't called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share much about your life. And don't ask alot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to see that you ARE the gentleman of her dreams. Basically, she's going to have to realise the right to have you for a boyfriend or lover.

Let HER trail you, not the other way round. And if you eventually let her catch you, maintain a minuscule of yourself back for a while. Think Back, she's not sure what to do if you're really nice, so don't give so much.

Am I really saying that you should treat her bad? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If you genuinely want to save your relationship, these are the steps that can do it!