Every guy has wondered why a woman has not called them back whether they had been on a date with the woman or whether they had just met her the night before. Let me start of by saying if you met a woman at a night club and she was intoxicated that more than likely she won’t even remember who you are. Don’t take it to heart because think about how many guys would approach them and ask for her number?



Then WHY on earth would a woman give you their details if they were not going to call back? That is the simple part and women will give their details out to look “better" and significant in front of all their friends. Women will give you their number so you leave them the hell alone.

A lot of men seem to fail after the first meeting with the woman, they never message them back or they do and the woman says I am busy and show no interest at all what so ever. There was a reason they went out with you otherwise they would not have even wasted their time. The reason they did not call back is because you did not push those buttons inside of a woman to create the attraction. Most men convey too much interest too early on and talk about boring subjects. Also most men take a woman on a DATE after meeting them at a club or at a social even. Do not do this please it will safe you the awkwardness and pressure.

Most men fail to go out and know why they are going out with the woman. To have FUN and enjoy themselves, women don’t want a serious guy straight away they are not comfortable with you. This is the mistake that all men make they try to impress the woman with everything that they have and do in their life instead of focusing on the woman. It is not about you guys when you ask a woman out to meet you.

Women get extremely frustrated when they go out and meet a guy and all they talk about is work, what they are studying, BORING topics. You cannot bore a woman into feeling attraction for you it simply won’t work. You must create that attraction straight away with the woman. I have seen it over and over again women going out with men and not enjoying themselves and men trying to be someone who they are not. If you want to know the best way for her to call you back and message you straight after the encounter you had with her then go out to have fun, enjoy yourself. Don’t be too serious too early on in the starting stages of the relationship because you are only going to hurt yourself.

Don’t get upset if a woman does not call you back, MOVE ON. There are plenty of woman out there more than you could ever handle in a lifetime. So don’t be surprised if you meet a woman out at a club and you get her details and she does not call back.

Trying to impress a woman does not work, it shows that you are needy and clingy and most men convey this when they first meet a woman. Don’t brag about your life to a woman because if you want her to put you in that category of “loser men" she just did.

Don’t call a woman 5 times if she does not answer and hope she is going to answer. Call once and leave a message if she does not pick up and leave it at that. If you want to you can send a text message a couple of days after.

Do you call or send a text message? If you call and she does not pick up then it’s a safe bet that she does not remember you, think about it, an attractive woman gives her number out to 15 guys in one night and the chances of her remembering who you are slim depending on where you meet her of course.

Push those buttons inside of a woman and build the attraction and you won’t need to worry about whether or not the woman is going to call you back or message you because it will definitely happen. Make that first meeting fun and enjoyable and build the trust and then there will be no reason for second thought if she is going to call you back or not.