Does that sound at all familiar to you?



Most men have went though a number of different experiences where that has been the case.

I have since been able to figure this out. I'll share with you what I have learned.

She Wants You To Reveal More

Whether women realize it or not, they don't always send clear signals. Many of the signals that indicate interest are just a way to lead you on.

Why would she want to lead you on?

She wants to see how much she can learn about you. She wants to see if you can make her feel tingly inside. This does give you more opportunity to prove yourself, but unfortunately it will rarely work in your favor, because you will think your already doing the right things.

Realize that a woman's signals can be misleading. She is trying to get you to expose your true colors.

She Likes Attention

Women love attention. Sometimes they will flirt with you just to get attention. Married women do this and you can see lots of women doing it at your favorite club. It's a great way for her to validate herself as a woman. She only knows that she is beautiful based on the fact that men hit on her allot, compliment her, and so on.

There is a difference between flirting for attention and flirting with intent. Women will use both of these on you.

Your Sending Her Mixed Signals

Often when a woman sends mixed signals its because you are sending her mixed signals.

What?

Yes! You heard me correctly. She is just as confused as you are.

Allot of guys send out behavior signals to a woman that communicates friendship. I know your intentions may be more then that, but she doesn't always know what your intentions are. So be careful about how you treat her. Are you treating her like a friend? Or... A lover? You better figure it out.

You Changed

How many times have things been going well only for things to suddenly change in your relationship? This happens all the time.

Did you start calling her all the time?

Did you keep telling her how amazing you think she is?

Did you start buying her gifts all the time?

I know what your thinking!

She said she wanted to be treated like a princess and to feel special.

What made you think that she doesn't already feel that way with you?

It's okay to value a woman, but don't overvalue her.

Let her call you sometimes, let her tell you how amazing you are sometimes, and let her buy you a gifts sometimes.