Some people live very fulfilling lives and when they depart from the world have the satisfaction of knowing that they did their best. For many others, success in the game of life eludes them. The difference between success and failure is often in having proper information and guidance about what should be done and what should not be done.
So, what is the information and guidance that can make the difference between ultimate success and failure? According to the sage Veda Vyasa (the reputed author of many of India's ancient epics and mythological texts) ?doing good to other's is virtue and doing harm to others is vice.? My guru, Shrii Shrii Anandamurti, has said, that of all the eighteen mythological texts of Vyasa, this one sentence on virtue and vice is the most important.
Another sage, Shankaracarya, carries this further and advises people to ?do good actions day and night,? 24 hours. If anyone follows this advice then there is little chance that his or her life can go wrong.
However, it is not always easy to keep engaged in activities that will bring about the welfare of ourselves and others. This world is a battlefield between two tendencies: a force that pushes us and attracts us towards knowledge and union with the Ultimate Reality and a force which pulls us towards ignorance and separation from the Supreme Consciousness.
This battle is going on in the world and in our own minds. Sometimes you may have a thought to do something that is obviously good, something that will help you to develop or that will be helpful to others. And the next moment you may have a desire to do something that you know will end up in your degradation. This is natural, everyone experiences this. The trick is to always choose and carry out the actions that will bring about your welfare and the welfare of others.
In this respect I would like to leave you with one final piece of advice from the sages that can help you to always make the right choice. This one originates in the ancient Indian epic, The Ramayana.
The Ramayana is the story of a struggle between a king named Rama, who is taken by many to be an incarnation of God, and his adversary Ravana. Ravana was a king who kidnapped the wife of Rama which set off a long war. In the end Rama defeats Ravana in battle. Good in the form of Rama overcomes evil who is personified by Ravana. However there is an interesting twist at the end of the story. Rama goes to the dying Ravana and says to him ?You are a senior person, can you give some advice that will be useful to us and future generations.?
Ravana replied by telling about his own life. He said that as a youth he had some good ideas about how he could help people reach Heaven. But he postponed doing anything about them. On the other hand, later in his life he got the idea to kidnap Rama's wife, and this he did immediately, and it led him to defeat and death. So, he said, my advice is ?good actions should be done immediately and bad actions should be postponed.?
There it is; the ultimate piece of advice. Don't delay in doing good actions (who knows you may not get a chance in the future) and if you get an idea that you want to do something bad, just say in your mind ?OK, but I will do it some other time.? If you keep postponing it, you will probably not do it.
I wrote a song about it and the chorus goes like this:
?If you've got something good, do it today.
Gonna do something bad, make a delay.
This is what the wise ones say.?
Wisdom From The Batcave
Not working hard enough. Financial capital is often inherited; you have no control over that. But human capital – a marketable skill – can be acquired only through training and effort.
Not producing. People get well paid for something that adds a lot of value. That means medicine, law, finance or something that will keep others to get well. If a financial success is your goal, you have to produce or create something that others want.
Punishing friends. Losers take their friends for granted - at their own peril. Unless you are a uniquely talented artist or athlete, there is no such thing as success without supporters. The inability to make and keep friends is involved in most failures.
Bad manners. People who are unsuccessful are routinely rude. They fail to arrive on time, to say thank you for presents and to apologize for their unfriendly behavior. No one wants to help someone with bad manners. Maybe millionaires can get away with being rude; for the rest of us it guarantees success killer.
Bad attitudes. The unsuccessful people can’t set priorities. The truth is, there is never enough time to do everything. The losers never realize it’s not a sacrifice to give up things of lesser importance for those of greater value.
Everyone may have some of these habits, but winners know they can change – and they do.
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