NEVER LET THE LINE GO SLACK

Once you start to "get" how this process of women getting turned on works, you're going to require a way to gauge how fast or slow to go... and to keep a woman paying attention without turning into a wussy-boy who calls her 10 times a day.

People call this concept "Never let the line go slack".

Imagine that you are holding one end of a rope, and the woman is holding the other end. Both of you are pulling gently... enough to keep nervousness in the line. It's a little game. If she starts pulling, you need to give her a little bit of slack... but not too much that she gets it all. And if she starts leasing go, you need to pull a little bit more to take up the slack and keep the anxiety up.

This is a great figure of speech for the concept of sexual tension. Most men haven't the smallest amount of idea in the world what sexual tension is. But all women do. And that's what we're talking about here. So imagine that you're out with a woman for the second time. On the first date you kissed her and held hands, and on this date you're walking around in the mall together.

Further, let's say that you've teased her so much that you can tell that it's in fact starting to get to her. Maybe you were joking her about her shoes being ugly, and she stops after the tenth joke and asks "Wow, do you really think my shoes are that ugly?" At this point, she's letting go of the line a bit... and you need to do impressive about it to keep the tension up.

At which point she might say "Wow, good. I was starting to worry that you really hated them and that it was bothering you". And now you have the contradictory situation... both of you are letting the line go slack at the same time with this whole "No, I think your shoes are fine" and her saying "Oh, I'm glad you were just teasing me" thing.

So you have to do something!

You might say "Well, if worse comes to worse you can always donate them to the Salvation Army so a needy girl who doesn't care if her shoes are ugly can have them". You'll probably get hit, but it puts the tension back in the line again!

Of course, there's an art to doing this in the approved manner, and you will get better with practice.

You can use this in just about every area imaginable, from how often you call a woman to being able to tell when it's proper to give a compliment (and then say something to take it back in a funny way!).

If you don't do these two things, then you're almost certainly going to find that women will do things that make no sense to you, and they'll rarely want to be anything more than "just friends", because they just don't "feel it" for you.