Our attention is consumed by the things we DON'T want, for example:
* An awkward boss
* Impossible deadlines
* Office politics
* A floundering project
* Demanding customers
* Money troubles
Because 'energy flows where attention goes', this focus on what we don't want becomes a drain on the time and energy that would be much better directed towards what we DO want.
The other critical point is that, when we focus on what we don't want, we tend to get more of it! Focus on your difficult colleagues and you find that the number of them seems to grow.
You may have come across the 'new car syndrome' - this occurs when you buy a new model. Up until then, you are largely unaware of how many there are on the road but the new purchase changes all this.
Now you see similar cars wherever you go. It's like retuning your internal radar so you can pick up what you did not detect before. While the real world has not transformed overnight, your subjective experience changes significantly.
So when you experience difficult times, you can also retune your radar. Decide what you do want - if you like ask a friend, colleague or coach to help you. Shake up the detail and get clear. Write it down.
Yes but (there is always a yes but ...) how does this really change anything? If I have an awkward boss, even after retuning my radar, I still have an awkward boss, right?
The answer is both Yes and No.
Yes- because you have no direct control over certain factors.
No - because by retuning your radar, you will see what was previously hidden - where you can influence what happens around you. By using your influence in fresh ways, you can alter an existing relationship.
Recently one of my coaching clients had a major turnaround in the relationship with her boss. It was only by becoming clear on what she wanted that she was able to break through the habitual patterns of interaction. Then she could communicate in a new way, both in what she said and how she said it.
By being clear on what you want, you will be able to spot the opportunities (like the new car) to move towards it. When you focus on what you really want, what is truly important, you will be energised and motivated to take action to get you there.
Work Opportunity Reconciliation Act
1. You must decide whether you are cut out to operate a home business on the Internet or not. There are several opportunities to work from home and certainly starting and running a home business on the Internet is one of them.
Other people work from home and do just fine as on-line workers doing such things as typing at home, data entry, customer service, and so on. As opposed to building an online marketing home business of their own these people prefer to work at home and have a job trading hours for pay.
2. If you feel you are entrepreneurial spirit, then starting a home business, and learning how to do Internet marketing, may very well be for you. You may not be ready to jump in just yet, however, and therefore you might want to do a little bit of research first.
I would like to suggest that you go to the Warrior Forum and register for free. There you can hang out and read some of the many discussions going on about people who are running their own home businesses online.
Because not everything goes perfect from the first time you will find this very enlightening. In these discussions you will get frank observations from people about the pros and cons of trying to make money online.
You will also find it to be very motivating at times because there are people making huge sums of money doing Internet marketing. You may even want to hop in and ask some questions of your own!
3. A final tip that we want to make is that when you do make a decision to get started that you get into the game right away. Many people waste so much time not wanting to get started until everything is perfect.
I can tell you right now that that may never be the case! You will never know everything you need to know, so you may as well get started and learn as you go.
This is 3 home business Internet marketing work opportunity tips. Whether you decide to work at home starting an Internet home business of your own or finding a job to do online, you will love the freedom of working for yourself from home.
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