Success psychologists say that 95% - 97% of the people in the world do NOT have written goals and fail, while 3-5% have written goals and succeed.
If these statistics are correct, then Mr Rohn's observation really IS quite fascinating isn't it?Unfortunately for most people, the odds for success are actually even lower, because out of the few people who do set goals, most don't take goal setting seriously, they don't do it scientifically and they only do it once a year.
It doesnt matter how much you know about nutrition or exercise. Until specialized fitness knowledge is linked with goals and directions, the knowledge is useless and you won't accomplish very much or keep the changes long term.
I've also studied neuro linguistic programming (NLP) for many years and more recently spent many months researching the latest information about neuroscience to see just how much of the traditional self help and goal setting wisdom is actually backed by brain research.
SCIENTIFIC GOAL SETTING TIP #1: Repetition is an effective way to "plant" a goal in the non-conscious mindWhy don't most resolutions stick?
Thanks to new technologies in brain imaging, such as PET scans, SPECT scans and functional MRI's, we can now actually see your thoughts as electrochemical impulses and we can see the formation of new neural connections in real time right before our eyes.
Setting a goal once is a conscious activity. Willpower is also a conscious activity. But research has shown that at least 5/6 of your brain power is in the non conscious mind and that the information and instructions that reach the non conscious mind are responsible for your automatic behavior.
Long term behavior changes don't take place when you set goals one time as with most new years resolutions. There's an old saying in "self help" circles that it takes at least 21-30 days to form a habit. This has now been proven to be fairly accurate on a neurological basis.
Your resolutions wither away and die and any results obtained through willpower (trying to force the new behaviors through conscious effort), are quickly lost when you slip back to your old ways.
In 1956, when Earl Nightingale wrote "The Strangest Secret is that we become what we think about most of the time," we didnt know what we know now about the brain.
You don't change your body by trying to change your body. You change your body by creating new habitual patterns of thinking and visualizing.
Its not the resolution you set once... its the goals (mental thoughts and images) you focus on all day long that create the long term (and automatic) behavioral change... when you change your behaviors, you change your body and your life...
Is there any way around this tedious process of "mental programming" through repetition? Not really. The fields of NLP and hypnosis have given us some tools for creating more rapid changes, but ultimately you have to begin to "run your own brain" and change your habitual way of thinking. No one else can do it for you and there's no way around it.there is however, a scientifically proven way to to speed up the process and that is with the use of strong emotion.
The neuron connections are also stronger, longer lasting and it takes longer to lose a neural connection when it was formed with great emotion.
On January 1st, you may think you're setting "real" goals, but if you're like most people, you're not only doing it a mere once a year and then losing focus, you're also likely to be making flimsy, wishy-washy, emotion-less "resolutions."
You might want to back up and read that quote again, maybe even write it down or print it out, because this one hits the bull's-eye!This truly explains why New Year's resolutions almost never work, and why so few people can keep off the pounds after they get rid of them.
Goal setting is also not a one time event - it is an ongoing process of literally "re-wiring your brain." With the discovery of brain plasticity, we now know that this is science fact, not self-help fiction.
Wwe New Years Resolution
The beginning of a new year is the traditional time to gaze into that proverbial crystal ball and make your New Years resolutions. And hey, this time you are really going to keep them, right? No question about that. And in 2008, you really will stop your ten-year spending spree. Good for you! If the US economy collapses as a result, there's always Aunt Gertrude in Germany who will take you in.
But maybe living with Aunt Gertrude for the rest of your life is not your ideal retirement scenario. If you, like so many others, have been putting off thinking seriously (rather than just dreaming) about your retirement, maybe its time to add a few very specific resolutions to your New Years list. These will allow you to retire sooner than you ever thorugh possible. Below are five you might consider.
First, however, begin by doing a quick self-evaluation. Take the retirement readiness quiz (see below) to get a baseline evaluation of your situation. This free quiz measures your readiness from various different perspectives, only some of which are financial. Then, depending on what you learn, you can modify the following list to suit your needs:
So here are your five retirement resolutions.
1. I Will Set A Date: I will determine the specific date I will retire, and I will write it down right here, right now! Month/Day/Year:
Wow. I did it! So, through my carefully-honed mathematical skills of subtraction, the time I have left before that date is( ) years and( )months. Oh my God! Really? That's not much time! I better get going! OK, here goes!
2. I Will Remember The Happy Times: No, not just the great vacations! Others who have thought of retirement as a perpetual vacation have mostly wound up disappointed and depressed. I know I will need to "get a (new) life." In order to figure out what will make me feel happy and fulfilled in my new life, I will think about what I was doing when I was happiest and most satisfied in the past, and then plan to recreate those situations in my retirement life.
3. I Will Make a Life Plan: Based on this information, I will make a specific retirement life plan including (a) where I will be living, (b) what I will be doing in the first two years, (c) who I will be doing it with, and (d) what I want to accomplish.
4. I Will Share My Plan and Get Buy-In: I will share this information with those closest to me to make sure they are bought in and supportive. I will make adjustments based on their feedback.
5. I Will Create a Financial Plan: I will estimate how much this is all likely to cost on an annual basis, and then I will meet with my financial advisor to review both my life plan and my finances and develop a realistic financial plan which will ensure that my resources will be sufficient to support me for the rest of my life. Based on what I learn, I will make the necessary adjustments to bring my life plan in line with my resources. Then, I will begin immediately to make the maximum possible contributions to my retirement accounts every year before I retire.
Whew! That was hard work! Now all I have to do is make sure to keep all of these resolutions in 2008 and beyond. And that will be easy, because in the past I have always kept all my New Years resolutions!
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