You're a mess. And you're a mess because you can't stop thinking about what a mess you are, when you're thinking at all. Now cut the navel-gazing and self-indulgence crap. People depend on you, and if they don't you're in worse shape than I thought.
Life isn't just about you. If you're financially in the hole, if you're killing yourself with prescription drugs, bad food, television and cigarettes or if you can't hold on to a job or relationship, chances are you're not just hurting yourself. You're hurting your family, friends and community, and you're certainly not making the world a better place.
Start by doing one good thing on a regular basis. Give blood once a month. Put in an afternoon a week at a soup kitchen. Shovel your elderly neighbor's walk when it snows. Call your Mom. None of these things will change your life. They will change you. Not much, just enough to realize that there is a world outside of you, that when you give to it, it gives back. Immediately. If helping others, doing good, doesn't make you feel good, you don't get it. Again, stop reading now.
Your one regular good deed won't get you the career, the girl, the dance moves or the early retirement you want but you'd be surprised at how far it takes you in the right direction. Doing good means feeling good, and feeling good is half the battle. In more direct terms, it helps you meet people and maintain relationships, and it's good for your reputation. As much as we think we don't need others, it's important to see ourselves in their eyes, and to like what we see.
Once you're comfortable with your slight change in habits, try another. Then another. Take it slow, and make sure you're settled into one good habit before changing another.
Not every good thing has to be an act of charity or benevolence. Once you start to like yourself a little more you'll "get" that doing good for yourself is the same thing as doing good for others. At that point, you'll have initiated the change you originally sought, and you'll be glad you decided to read to the end of this article, and started to get your act together.
You Just Don't Get It
There are too many tales of how difficult it is to get on the internet. This especially true about Senior Citizens who think that they are "Too Old" to learn a new trick, it's no wonder! There are too many stories about scam operators who are just waiting for the innocent wanderer on the cyberhighway of the internet to be picked on and fleeced, and although one has to be careful, with proper mentoring and guidance, these pitfalls can be avoided and a senior citizen can easily participate in the technological revolution that is taking place before him or her. The experience can be most exciting and rewarding to those of us who are in our twilight years.
Even those who have already gotten on the internet are found to be totally involved but only in sending e-mails to their loved ones, not realizing that there is a vast network available to them for supplemental income, which many Senior Citizens really need. The fears associated with all the horror stories told, will be addressed in an attempt to allay those fears.
The author fully realizes the pitfalls which one may encounter having encountered many technological ones as well as monetary mistakes. But with proper guidance from a mentor who has been there, these fears can be set aside.
The most common mistake made by everyone, once on the internet, is found, when you realize you need answers to your problems and you start asking for help. No question about it, ask a question and you can find an answer. However, quite often, the answer has a dollar cost to it, and once acquired, the answer leads to more questions, so you go for that answer with the ensuing cost and the next thing you know you are in a Daisy Chain going round and around. Not unlike a dog chasing its tail and getting nowhere fast. Before long you are completely lost heading for a Black Hole in the Cosmic Cyberspace Superhighway called the internet. Panic often sets in and many just quit in frustration and despair.
Well, it doesn't have to be this way, and this article and those that will follow will let you in on the secrets that the author found when he made mistake after mistake and spent countless dollars trying to find the answer he was looking for.
Quite often, the most basic mistake one can make is trying to go it alone. You have to have a mentor of sorts, if for no other reason than to realize that learning by making mistakes is the worst way to learn anything. Another main problem often committed, is scattering your shots all over the place in the hope that you will hit something in due time. You chase after one thing and another because you failed to focus on one thing at a time. The author speaks with experience in this regard and will be submitting future articles to point out where these pitfalls are and how to avoid them.
There is no reason to think that age has anything to do with mastering those necessary skills to be successful on the internet. Whether as a hobby, keeping in touch with family via E-mail, or deciding to supplement ones income, all things are possible if you approach it properly. In future articles, I will endeavor to give you the necessary information which will give you the confidence to take on the internet without fear of failure. As a former Test Pilot, I will navigate you through the maze and insure your safe passage for a successful mission.
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