You start to think, why is he or she so indifferent towards me all of a sudden? What became of the love we had for each other, what on earth went wrong, or where did I fail?



You have to understand, that there is nothing wrong with YOU! If your partner becomes unfaithful to you, it is something THEY decide to do, and they are masters at justifying their infidelity to themselves!

They make themselves believe that because you are like this, or you are like that, they need to look elsewhere for love and sex. But how wrong they are! Nothing will ever justify infidelity in a marriage or a relationship!

Some people who feel unhappy in their marriage or relationship, don't have the courage to deal with it. If they think something is wrong, but don't do anything to fix it, YOU are not the one to blame, only THEM! Those who think that it is enough to get married, and everything will automatically fall into place, are simply naive and shallow!

If you are concerned that your spouse is having a love affair with another person, you better not ask them straight out, unless you are prepared to hear just a bunch of lies, such as:

Oh, she is just like a sister to me, that's all, or, It wasn't me! The cell phones must have been crossed with someone else's, or, He's a good friend of my brother. You get the point here.

It is vital for you to learn how to spot the signs of your partner's infidelity. Strangely enough, most of them fall into the same category. But don't confront them until you have prepared yourself very well verbally, emotionally and legally. Make sure they have no way of lying their way out!