Back when we started   We didn't know how hard it was   Living on nothing   But what the wind would bring to us   Now we've got something   I can imagine fighting for   So why is fighting all that we're good at anymore      And sometimes I don't have the energy   To prove everybody wrong   And I try my best to be strong   But you know it's so hard   It's so hard      It's so hard when it doesn't come easy   It's so hard when it doesn't come fast   It's so hard when it doesn't come easy   It's so hard      It felt like a given   Something a woman's born to do   A natural ambition   To see a reflection of me and you      And I'd feel so guilty   If that was a gift I couldn't give   And could you be happy   If life wasn't how we pictured it      And sometimes I just want to wait it out   To prove everybody wrong   And I need your help to move on   Cause you know it's so hard   It's so hard      It's so hard when it doesn't come easy   It's so hard when it doesn't come fast   It's so hard when it doesn't come easy   So hard      I can live for the moment   When all these clouds open up for me to see   And show me a vision   Of you and me swimming peacefully      Last night you told me   That you can't remember   How to feel free      It's so hard when it doesn't come easy   It's so hard when it doesn't come fast   It's so hard when it doesn't come easy, easy      It's so hard