Verse 1   The first thing I did wrong   Was hook up with a girl who wasn't grown   She looked like a woman but her mind worked like a child   It was her girlish qualities that made me smile    The outside never showed me what was in   And her ending didn't look like it began   NOw I know and it's for sure   That you can't change a girl into a woman      Hook   I'm okay, make sure you're okay   No matter how long it takes   Make sure that you're okay   And if she goes away   Make sure that you're okay   NOw that I got out   I'm just looking out trying to show you the way   To be okay      Verse 2   Now I hate to see you make the same mistakes   So avoid the things that cause your heart to break   From a hurting brother, I ain't trying to hate   But if you mess around with her she'll seal your fate   You'll never see it coming till it's there   And you'll find out that she doesn't really care   And it's real what I feel   You can have her ass I don't want her over here      Hook      Bridge   If you decide to stay it's alright (it's your decision)   But take heed to what I say you'll be alright (listen to what I'm saying)   If you decide to go then go now (you better leave her)   Don't look back because she'll only bring you down   Oh, bring you down   Bring you down (bring you down)      Breakdown   Sing it one time   Okay, woo, woo, woo, woo, woo   Make sure you'll be okay   It's okay, okay      Hook